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White Muslim revert, pregnant by my asian Muslim boyfriend. He can’t tell his mother about me as he says it’ll kill her.

Salaam, I am a 23 years old, white muslim revert and have been in a relationship with an asian muslim. We have only been together 8 months and I fell pregnant after being together for 2 weeks. He has stood by me and we decided to keep the baby because neither of us agreed with abortions.

We are still together but in secret as his dad and sisters found out about me and they sent him to Zimbabwe for 2 weeks. Now he has emailed me and told me he loves me, misses me and wants us to be together but would have to be in secret for now until we have been together a while longer because we have only been together 8 months which isn’t very long when you think about it.

I’m a revert, do I have to get circumcised?

i am a muslim revert. just wondering, I was not able to get circumsized when i was young because of financial hardship. Is it necessary now? Now that I am almost 20, the doctors are not advising it and it costs 5-10K and is not covered by insurance. It has to come out of your pocket. DO i need to get it done? I live in chicago. Is there someplace I can get it done for free? Also, will my muslim wife care or make a big deal after we get married and have sex?