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Life or death; miserable yet trying to live for my kids.

I had made istikhara and took my step upon it to leave, but my parents made me come back. I am miserable in this relationship, and for my husband to change things I simply have to ask for divorce which he refuses. I am very lost and have lost hope in life. I just keep wishing that somehow my kids and I would disappear. I don’t know for how long I can endure this.

My life is messed up; please help me to make the right decision.

He loves me too I know that; the problem with me is that I love him a lot and cannot think about anyone else other than but I am ignoring him and making dua to Allah to help me. What should I do? I have problems in my life I cannot go and marry just someone else and also I have tried to but I cannot help thinking about him and cry and praying all the time.