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Parents not agreeing to marriage with a Bengali girl.

24 Tamil guy working in India in love with Bengali . My parents are not agreeing to this marriage due to distance in cities and language problems. Also, girl was in a relationship in the past with her boyfriend for 3 years before she met me.

Friend got pregnant while getting to know a guy for marriage, but he abandoned her

My friend got intimate with another guy and fell pregnant in the process of getting to know each for marriage. The guy asked to terminate but she couldn’t do that. He got married to his cousin back home and when his wife found out about his affair and child she left him. He hasn’t seen his baby and my friend’s life is a mess as she hasn’t told her family about all this because she lives alone in another city.

Is it a coincidence or is there a real connection?

My husband lives abroad and he is a righteous person Masha Allah. He always asks me to offer 5 times prayers and thanks Allah (swt) all the time for everything. However, I feel like I am drifting away from my religion and also I lie to my husband sometimes. I have noticed that whenever I commit any sin, my husband suffers from some kind of loss.

In love with a guy who I want to marry but he is delaying marriage.

I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years before I became more practicing. I want to get married to him but he is delaying marriage because he wants to be financially stable and mature first before marriage. Also, I have been trying to get him to practice religion and learn about Islam but he doesn’t understand and we end up arguing and these arguments are getting bigger and bigger. We argue on very little things and often I feel unhappy, lonely and sad and have no one to tell as my parents are not aware of my relationship.