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Masturbation by a married man when his wife is away for some days

I am married since November 2010 and parents of my wife liver nearer to my house. My wife always visits her parents for 3-4 days fortnightly. Despite my extreme tries, I cannot control myself in her absence and usually masturbate. If I ask my wife not to stay for more than a day as she can return home easily, she never considers it.

How to control urges leading to masturbation?

I have started to masturbate at the age of 16 approx, and from then goes with the flow. Last year before Ramzan I stopped it and did not masturbate for about 6 to 7 months and believe me thats a lot to carry for a young blood. I am really not addicted to it but its just something which can not be controlled. Now a days i am really worried, even in Ramzan i am thinking bad but ALLHAMDULLILAH controled the desire.