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Boyfriend threatens to expose our relationship to my parents; ruin my life and career.

Within one month of knowing each other, we got together as courting couple. It was my first time. It was him who wanted, and I was reluctant at the start, but followed him. Between me and him, we had already started to talk about settling down next year. He likes to threaten me, saying that he will meet my parents and blurt out everything about what we have done. e also said that he will ruin my career and will create havoc at my workplace. I feel like, all these are happening because I didn’t take care of myself well; I caused shame to my parents I did what they forbid us to do.

We wish to marry but parents are hesitant as his family are Shia

I have accepted a proposal of my colleague, however my parents don’t want to accept him because of his family background. I come from a Sunni family but the guy’s family is Shia. An important fact is that the guy never accepted or practiced shiism. He claims himself to be Sunni and practicing Sunni Beliefs, following Imam Abu Hanifa..

His cold-heartedness is killing me

I got married not 2 long ago. My Husband gave me an std from his past. Few days ago I forgave him. (it wasn’t easy). I have more compassion for him than he has for me. Im in a deep depression and my anger doesn’t decrease..

Husband gets angry over small things, need help with marriage.

I am muslimah. I have been married for 5 years. It is a love marriage. I don’t know what else to say about my marriage except that I have been crying my eyes out so often these years. I don’t know where to start. I used to think that I was so lucky to have found a man who adores me and loves me for who I am. But things turned sour after the marriage…

Thinking of converting but want lesbian thoughts to go away!

Please can anyone help me/give me advice. I am a 22 year old girl who has had a boyfriend for the last 5 years. But in the last month or more I have been having lesbian thoughts. I am violated at myself and pray for them to go away. How do I stop having them?

I had Haram relationships with a boy; who threatens to disclose it to my family

Every time we saw each other we did something sexual, I regret it so much and hope that Allah will forgive me and my family for what I did Insha Allah. I have made up my mind that I don’t want to marry any of these guys (my cousin and the boy I have been seeing for 5 years). But now, the kid I have been seeing for 5 years is very upset and will not leave me alone.

Boyfriend married behind my back, keeps calling me.

I feel I am on a death bed right now, and my life has been stripped of meaning. I am a Sikh girl who is 33 years old, and had been in a 2 year relationship with a Westernised Pakistani from Australia. He promised me the world, …

Mother in law feels I stole her son

I have been married since october last year and live with my in laws, my husband is the eldest and there are a few other kids after him, he is the only one married and she is a widow for the past 12 years therefore she basically brought her kids up alone..

I cry night and day thinking about him

I got married to my husband on th 1st March 2011, I knew that he was married the 1st time and all his circumstances and I still married him cause I love him..

He has a son from his first marriage and I have a son from my 1st marriage but now I am divorced and married the man I love. His 1st wife come to my house called me a prostitute….

Leaving this homosexuality is my top priority.

Assalaamu alikum… I´m 21 yrs of age and I´m battling with an issue which is very grave from an Islamic point of view….!Homosexuality…Tried to look up an answer for it on other Islamic sites but don´t know why I got no answer…