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I’m fearful of my husband having Hoor-Al-Ayn in Paradise

I do not want my husband to have Hoor al Ayn in heaven under any circumstances. Why can’t I just marry a Non-Muslim man? I mean, the Muslim husband will go away from me to his Hoors!

I can’t bear the knowledge that my husband will have hoor al ayn

Seriously I can’t even make dua for paradise for my husband or daughter. I even prefer that I did not exist at all.

Hoor, polygamy, children…dilemmas of an ex-sinner

Thinking of more women and variety reverses my contentment and harms the frame of mind I have constructed for myself. It feels like greed to me and it reminds me of my past. It doesn’t leave any space for love at all. I just don’t feel comfortable with extra lust.

Will Allah permit a man to reject hoor al ayn?

Please do not cite Hadiths about the virility and sexual capabilities of men in Jannah, as I have read them all and have experienced a loss of iman. It has been five years since I came across this topic, and have been extremely hurt by it. It sounds stupid, i know, but throughout my life, I depended and turned to Allah s.w.t. I never knew I would have an amazing, loving husband as I do now, but I always knew that human beings are unfaithful..