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Life or death; miserable yet trying to live for my kids.

I had made istikhara and took my step upon it to leave, but my parents made me come back. I am miserable in this relationship, and for my husband to change things I simply have to ask for divorce which he refuses. I am very lost and have lost hope in life. I just keep wishing that somehow my kids and I would disappear. I don’t know for how long I can endure this.

Please guidance to keep my baby

I read another post regarding a women wanting to put her baby up for adoption. A few comments mentioned in their the fact that ‘ at least she had not committed zina’ meaning it was not out of wedlock. This confuses me in my decision as you said to me it is best if I get married and keep the baby. I did so but still have not gained the care of the baby due to my parents. Does this mean I should not keep my baby and give him up for adoption?