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He’s changing his mind about us after sex.

Now he is changing. When I said about engagement, he wasn’t interested.

Premarital Sex

I am 19 years old and engaged, however last year I was with my boyfriend of 2 years and we had sex. I was against it but for his pleasure I agreed. What I considered love was infact lust. I realise that now. My fiance does not know anything of this and as muslims obviously me not being a virgin is a big dishonour and shame. I want to repent but I dont know how to??

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child

Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.