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I have broken promises to Allah many times

I promised again not to sin but I broke my promise again. This happened almost three times. Now, I think I lost my “Iman.” I rush towards Allah for forgiveness but there is no reply from Allah. I think there is no reason for my living. In namaz, I have no feelings of standing before Almighty Allah. When I recite Quran, there is no feelings of having Iman.

Is it sinful to marry my fiance but still have thoughts of ex- boyfriend afer marriage?

I told my family about my interest in this guy and they agreed that if he gets his parents with a proper proposal they will consider him. Now the problem is that i have tried my best to convince him but nothing seems to work with him he has backed out by saying he needs more time.

Utterly stuck in confusion and missing her. I want to forget her.

During my MBBS met a girl. We became friends. For some reason I liked her and started loving her in no time. Same was with her and she started loving me…

My life has been wasted, I wish I could undo what has been done

When i was young, my very own neighbor used to touch me. It felt weird but as i was not open with my mom, so i didnt discuss it with her. I could have told them to stop but didnt…which is what i hate about myself. I knew something was happening which shouldn’t have..but i gave in for the feeling i guess. I know myself…i dont deserve but to be forgiven…but i love ALLAH…n HE might forgive me someday based on my good actions but…

My husband has a baby with another woman; What are his and mine duties?

Problem is the other woman still wants to be with him so I am not comfortable with him going there to visit the baby. On the other hand if I allow the child at our home how do I explain it to our 6 year old daughter and 8 year old son? Also are we not magnifying the sin as this is also a sin?

I regret having pre-marital sex

I have comitted zina and I regret it since then. I have sought forgiveness from Allah. I’m so depressed and I cry about it. I wish it had never happened..

HOCD- How can I get rid of it?

I tell myself that homosexuality is a combination of society and childhood experiences, and I am not “born” like this. I researched and tried to understand all of human sexuality, how people become attracted to someone, how it changes, why I did what I did, what it means.

Do I need to confine myself to my home in order to be forgiven for committing zina?

So I have read the post The Sin of Adultery and Fornication. Jazak Allah khair for this very wise and true article. All the young muslim people should read this and be remembered not to look at the disbelievers, who appear to lead a happy and exciting life. Or that they commit the biggest sins and still aren’t punished by Allah and still are happy. (that was my biggest problem, when I was young).

How to get rid of porn and masturbation

My name is AbduL and I am 18. Four years back I had sex with a couple of a guys and I had sex with a woman also, but now I am feeling ashamed of myself and I do tuba to Allah..

I watch haraam things, how can I get rid of this bad habit

I am a 19 year old Muslim boy, I offer namaz 5 times regularly and I am good to all of my relatives and respect them, I never even saw girls on walking on street or any where..