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Unfaithful Husband

I have been married for almost 6 years. We don’t have any children yet… a blessing, I have begun to think. He treated me really badly since the beginning, being very rude and curt all the time. In the first year of our marriage I discovered that he was in a relationship with a cousin of his, romantically involved. I went on. Then I discovered that he had sent messages to one of MY cousins, and was starting an affair with her. That was caught too, and everyone came to know. That time he said that this is the last time anything like this will ever happen.

My husband has online relations with other women

I need advice and help, I feel so alone and confused. I met my husband online 4 years ago, a few times over the time we met I discovered he was talking online to females and joining wierd fetish groups for sexual relief. I would discover many times what he did, but I new deep down he is a good man and I stood by him believeing him every time he said sorry and that he had done tawba over his mistakes.

I find myself asking what I’m doing wrong. It’s not the obvious reason where people will say I dont give him sex, as I’m always the one asking and waiting for it. He is always tired because of work and when we do finally have sex he just jumps in the bath and wants to eat, whereas I want to lay down and cuddle and talk.

My husband talking to another woman whilst married

I have been married for Alhumdulillah 14 months, this was not an arranged marriage. At the start of my marriage things had not been easy for me as I had married outside the family. Anyway prior to me, my husband was considering someone else but for some reason he did not proceed with her and married me.

One day, I went through his phone bills and I could not believe what I saw. My husband had kept in contact with the same girl he had once considered for marriage. He gave her the time and day as if she was his wife.

After 13 years I have discovered that my husband is a playboy

I have been married for 13 years. After the 13th year I have finally realised that my husband is a playboy and had been cheating on me. I am unable to bear the shock and I don’t know how to proceed.