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What does Islam say if a girl is forced to marry a man who she is not attracted to?
If the girl does not like that man and can’t think of even having a personal life with him which is obligatory after tying the knot into a marriage, what does Islam says in this regard? Please guide with best from Islam.
I am confused as he says; he loves me yet doesn’t want to dissolve his marriage.
I was introduced to a boy as we were both in a stage of looking for marriage. Whilst I got to know him we both developed feelings for each other and wanting to marry one another. So, when my other half found out he was fuming and said I could not be trusted. He then looked at another proposal his parents arranged for him and told me he was still in love with me. Thereafter, our relationship was going downhill and after a month of our mending of relationship I heard he is marrying another girl! He calls me and tells me he loves me and made a hasty decision out of confusion!
I am in love with a married man and my feelings are torn; don’t know what to do?
Four years ago a man came to work in my department. He is a good muslim, husband and father alhamdilullah. In addition, he is very charismatic, popular and excellent at his job. However, I remained true to my values and tried my best for the relationship to remain professional. I confronted him and I admit that I became terribly distressed and he tried to comfort me. The situation became impossible after that, as I think it must have been obvious to him that I feel the same way about him, although I would never say. The problem is that no matter how I try, I cannot forget this man. He continues to attempt to contact me and recently messaged me through my facebook account which I have now closed.
My brother doesn’t want to marry his fiance but he is doing so for our parent’s happiness.
He trust me with his whole life. He has told me about his past. Like how he used to sell drugs and have sex with other woman. He has also told me he was in love with his ex girlfriend. How she treated him different than any other girl he even meet. He still loves her. But didn’t marry her because it was a long distance even though they lived in the same city. He lies to my parents to get him engaged. He doesn’t want to marry the girl he is engaged too. He doesn’t want to hurt my parents and break up the Engagement. And he feels if he does and goes back with his ex girlfriend. She might take him back. How could I help My brother?
I am confused about this proposal that my parents have chosen for me and don’t know what to do?
I am a muslim female. My parents arranged for me to marry. At that time, I thought ok let’s go for it but after getting to know him I don’t really like him. I told my family but they are bothered about the shame on the family and community and still want me to go ahead with it but say they will not force me. I am really depressed as I don’t know what to do? I can’t think; I can’t sleep; I can’t even tell anyone else. I did isthikhara but didn’t get any result; as far as I am aware he got a positive result. Can anyone please help me why am I feeling like this?
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