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How do I mend relationship with my parents, without having to deal with my rude, abusive brother?

I do not know how to fix my relationship with my parents without going through this same pattern over and over again. Them forcing me to be there for my brother, him provoking me to get angry, me responding with anger, and everyone blaming me for being rude and causing problems.

Am I divorced? Am I gonna be punished for divorcing my husband?

While we were both very excited about the pregnancy, he asked me to stay home from work because my job was very physical. I loved my husband so much that I waited 14 months for him to be released. While he was in jail, I got an apartment and took care of all the bills, my 2 children. I got a call from my doctor saying that; I had contracted Chlamydia. I begged him to stop and he said he will. Two weeks later they were still talking and they were even in contact with each other while we were at an Islamic conference together for the weekend.

My husband has tried to suffocate me with a pillow.

Assalamalaikum

I am a 30 year lady and been married for 3 years.
Let me add that I got married to a muslim man of my choice who is younger than me 2 years. Initially my parents objected to his marriage when they found out that he use to drink alcohol. But since i knew or at least I thought he had stopped drinking, i begged my parents to let me marry him.

My ex is cursing me because I finished with him due to his haram lifestyle

I wanted to ask question regarding the solution to a problem that I am facing right now. I was going to get married to a guy. Both families met and agreed to our marriage. Everything went well from both sides Alhamdullilah. However after a while, the guy I was going to get married started to act strange. He witnessed his friend’s death and this changed him to a totally different person. He was facing a lot of problems and had family responsibilities as he was the eldest in the family. His father passed away before he was so, he had no father figure around him.