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Arranged Marriage – Emotional Pressure

My parents are forcing me to get married. I have respected them all my life but I am trying to convince them that I will not be happy.

My sins have made me depressed

I was forced to do sins. Now I am thinking about that incident… If my parents know about my past, they will hurt a lot.

Will I be forgiven by my husband for the sin of intimacy with my lover before marriage?

If this marriage is stopped… then my parents can’t bear that shame. I sacrificed my love for the sake of my parents reputation and happiness. I dont want that to go in vain.

I chose to marry a cousin in haste, now I regret it!

In haste, and with my own voice, I agreed to get engaged to my mum’s brother’s son. Everyone was happy, jealous, sad and excited. The engagement took place, but I wasn’t happy. I could have said something sooner, but seeing everyone happy made me hesitate. I thought I could grow to like the fiancee, but I was so wrong- though I tried.

Betrayed by a family friend, now my family is furious with me

I trusted this guy who first started and asked me to marry him. He is one of the family friends. I fell for his sweet words and i trusted him. No one knew about us and he said he will tell his parents after we are both ready for marriage…