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Help me please, the guilt is hurting me

Aslam alaikum sister I was in a haram relationship for 1 month but I talked to the guy about everyday for about 4 or 5 months. Also I ended it becuase of the guilt and knowing what I did was wrong. I have been feeling guilty everyday for about 2 months. How do I get rid of the guilt myself.

I haven’t converted yet but I cry to Allah everynight because I cheated so my boyfriend has left me

I dont know why i’m writing on here but i feel so so depressed right now and i have nobody else to turn to. I know i have Allah and i should turn to allah but i feel asif i need a human response, if you know what i mean? I’ve been reading some posts on the site and their are so many sisters who have been through hell and back and i feel for them; my situation seems really petty compared to others. First of all i am not a muslim, and when i was in high school and i had a male friend who is a muslim called R, we’ve been friends for years and one day we got intimate and eventualy we were boyfriend and girlfriend.

I kissed my cousin & now he shows interest in other girls

My cousin and i fell in love and we used to be around each other all the time, we even kissed. Ever since he left all my work is going horribly wrong and i think Allah is punishing me for what i did. What should i do? Also although he is a really nice guy but recently he has been showing interest in other girls although he says that they are just friends and the spark in our love is also dying.