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13 year old feeling guilty – am I still virgin?

I am writing this post because I am concerned of something I have done. Without thinking about the consequences, I used to continuously masturbate and I may have broken my hymen, although I have never had sex.

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, can we marry?

I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and we are both Muslims. I lost my virginity to him, we are both ashamed and have asked for forgiveness. We have decided that the right thing to do is marry each other. are we doing the right thing by getting engaged and getting married?

I might have ruptured my hymen and I am worried what my husband would think.

i have not done anything wrong for my hymen to be broken, however, my future husband would probably never ever believe me, as we have issues within our relationship anyway and he may explode at me – at least at the start of our marriage, because of this hymen issue – and im scared of that happening.

Can’t decide whether to marry her or not as she said she’s not virgin.

i m a faithful and serious guy never thought of having sex before marriage…. until one day she told me that shes not a virgin and said i know i had hurt you should have told you before etc….am dyinG right now with million thouhhts in my mind…. not able to decide something..she asked me to leave her as she is not worth it..but i m not able to decide.