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I don’t know what is good for me, nor what I want

I have not performed Istikhara on this. I have been hesitating. Apparently my sub-consciousness tells me that since the result of my Istikhara from the ex was very painful, this too could be disappointing and I have no more room for hurt. I know I am not making sense. It’s like I am running away from the truth because it is painful.

The man I loved betrayed me and married another. Who will marry me?

I wrote to you all regarding my break up and betrayal by my ex in April. That day must of been the darkest day of my life as I felt everything had just crumbled. Since that day I’ve become to close to Allah I repent my sins, how I filled my heart for love for a man not Allah, how I was blinded and failed to read the signs and I’m trying to understand slowly yeah everything happens for a reason and Allah has saved me in the long run. I have many times throughout the day where my heart sinks and I feel depressed. But I think more what makes me down and depressed is what’s next for me?

I am haunted by my past sin, it is causing me problems

I am very embarrassed to even tell that I am a vey unlucky person who had abortion, When I got pregnant, I got really scared that i’ll not be able to take care of my baby due to severe rheumatoid arthriitis, but whatever the reason now I know that it is Haram, and i should’nt have done that, I am really regretful and everyday this sin haunts me..