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My fiancee is out of control!

My fiancee is a sort of girl who uses to visit almost everyone home in town and don’t hide herself from men… I fear this will ruin our life after marriage.

Out of my control

I have seemed to reach a point of hopelessness. For the first time in my life, I have stopped praying INTENTIONALLY. With no good reason apart from the fact that I am ashamed to pray to allah.

Lack of self control is affecting my entire life

By the grace of Allah I’m Muslim, and I pray 5 times, but I don’t know what happened to me. For the last 3 years, I haven’t been able control myself in doing bad deeds. My memory is totally lost and I can’t remember things, names, formulas etc etc.

whispers don’t let me breathe.

don’t smile or laugh because whenever I try to be happy, I think I’m doing a sinful thing and for this I will go to hell. I’m afraid of even thinking about any other person in my life. Neither can I think of my future husband, as I think by loving him I will cheat Allah (S.W.T). I cry and ask forgiveness. I cry that I should be well, but it’s getting worse.

Porn and masturbation have made me lose confidence

Whenever I am angry, I feel lust, lonely and nobody is there for me. I have negative thinking that many people are committing a greater sins than I do and Allah will forgive me even after I commit it. I masturbate to stop those urges, but now I am fed up by my behavior; I just can’t live like this.

Please, help me to avoid negative thoughts and acts.

I am 26 year old male unmarried, I have committed a sin. I have a negative attitude towards my maid servant. Today I hugged and kissed her which is not legal but …