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Tag Archive for ‘puberty’

Can I massage my private parts to make them grow?

I am a 13 year old boy who has hit puberty.

I am concerned about shaving my private parts

[Editor’s note: This post relates to hygiene of male private parts. Please keep responses within appropriate limits.]

Desperate struggle between religion and sexual desires

I don’t know how long I can keep this as I have a very high sex drive. The only solution for me is to get married but that is not advisable as I’m only 16. I really want to change and have a positive impact on the people around me and stay in the UK and be a positive influence.

I can’t stop doing things I know are wrong

I am 15 and I live in Singapore. I really need help in my life.
I masturbate a lot of times, smoked before but I quit it, drank beer once cos of curiosity, lie to my parents, I don’t pray,

I let my cousin lay over me when I was 8 years old

I let my cousin to lie over me for 2-3 mins, no intercourse, no kisses, I was not nude either. I really was unaware that this is an evil. I was just stupid didnt even know whether this is good or bad. I later gained that this is not major zina (sexual intercourse) as I was an insane.

I have sexual problems that I am afraid will affect my marriage plus I can’t cook or clean

All my life, since puberty, I never experienced any sexual desires or feelings or felt anything pleasurable in my body. I don’t know why this is. I never sought help in the past because I didn’t recognize I was different from others. Now, I went to the gynecologist since I am married and want to be close with my husband, and the gynecologist said physically everything is normal. If that is true, why don’t I feel anything sexually?