Tag Archive for ‘relationships’

Husband gets angry over small things, need help with marriage.
I am muslimah. I have been married for 5 years. It is a love marriage. I don’t know what else to say about my marriage except that I have been crying my eyes out so often these years. I don’t know where to start. I used to think that I was so lucky to have found a man who adores me and loves me for who I am. But things turned sour after the marriage…

Been intimate with my girlfriend but her family refused me as Istikhaarah is negative
My situation is very complicating.I am a Guy and i have beeen into this girl since last 3 years.. she has been my girlfriend since then and we have been going out steadIly. I am the only guy who she has ever spoken to and the only guy who has ever touch her. we had intimate relation…

I’m in love with a girl but my parents don’t allow me to marry her
My parents are quite strict which is causing a lot of problem for us. Part of their the reason for their strict behaviour is my sister who is not married yet. She wanted to marry a person but my parents didn’t approve him but she faught for her choice and now they have agreed when she is 27. My parents scolded me, my mother slapped me, ….

Parents want me to forget this guy, but …
I have mentioned him to my parents so that I could see him openly and not behind their backs. After a while though, my parents did not like me seeing him. He is a pious guy who is good to his elders and family. The main reasons they do not want me to see him anymore is perhaps because of his monetary status..

What is Islamic ruling on triple divorce and can they reconcile and live together?
He had written; I Talaq Umme Kulsum, I Talaq Umme Kulsum, I Talaq Umme Kulsum and signed the letter in presence of two Muslim witnesses, who also signed the letter as witnesses to the declaration of pronouncement of Talaq. She and her parents anticipated the letter to be the letter of declaration of Talaq (Talaqnama), hence refused to accept the letter and returned the letter without opening the envelop that contained the letter of declaration of Talaq.

How to approach a Muslim to see if he the right man for marriage?
I am a born muslim woman (aged 25), from a predominantly muslim country. I wear headscarf, fast during the Ramadan and some other times, and pray five times a day, also read Quran regularly. My family is also religious. I came across the facebook profile of someone (let’s call him M.). We have some common friends. Then, I reviewed his profile as it was open to public and I was kind of impressed by it. He is a revert muslim, studying and working. Now, I want to know him better and to see if he is the person I would like to marry (and the same for him).

Question regarding Parents in-law
Is parents-in-law are considered blood relation? and what are my duties to my parent in -laws? I am male, so I am asking about my wife’s parents.

Father abusive behaviour toward family and difficulty in finding a decent proposal for sister.
My mother is not given her right to say anything in major issues of family and part of the reason of my sister not getting married is the interference from my aunts (father’s sisters). The reason is that my aunt wants to give her daughter to my brother. She probably views my sister as a thorn in her daughter’s side.

Living with a non-Muslim man who promised to convert to Islam before marriage.
I have been living with a non-Muslim man for a year now who I am engaged. He promised to become Muslim once we get married. He is learning about Islam little by little but I feel he will never do that for all the right reasons.

Is his secret second marriage as Muslim to a Filipina Muslim girl valid in Philippines?
My husband who went to Saudi Arabia for work and converted to Islam and became a Muslim. He got married to a Philipina Muslim girl and didn’t mention that he is married here in Philippines and got documents from the authorities showing him as single. Our marriage is not annuled yet but I don’t know if it is valid under civil law of Philippines.