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After 10 years of relationship, I revert, he abandoned me

when the time of marriage came he asked his parents consent but they were against it and said to leave me.we tried to convince them for past two years but still they woudn´t …

I changed my full name, please advise.

I have read that it is haram to change your surname. My concern is that, when I reverted, I changed my name in full. I took my husbands surname as is traditional in the west. I didn´t know any different and I have changed this by deed poll,…

Maybe pregnant, his father won´t let him marry me

So my questions are first of all, if I am pregnant, how do I go about breaking this news to him and his family (who thinks we are e-mail buddies)? Secondly, how do I handle this situation of marriage with his family? I feel that I have exhausted my resources and done everything I can do.

While “waiting” for me, he married and divorce.

I am a Muslim woman and a couple of years ago I met a Revert to Islam. From the very beginning his intentions were pure, he told me that his intentions were to marry me. Unfortunately, our relationship wasn’t Halal and we committed major sins.

Boyfriend says our baby is haraam and I must get an abortion

I am a revert to Islam Alhamdulila. Before this I was Catholic and had a love interest for 3 years, a muslim man from Yemen. One day we did not control ourselves and now I am pregnant. I know we are not married yet, and that is a big sin, but I was still surprised at his reaction when I told him. He said that I need to have an abortion because something that comes from Haram is never good and it will be a haram baby…

Husband keeps our marriage a secret from his family

I live in North America and reverted to Islam 7 years ago, Alhamdulillah. I was married twice before but not to Muslims and do have children from these previous marriages. My children are older now and grown and although they respect my religion, they themselves are not Muslim. I signed up on a Muslim marriage site and the response was overwhelming but soon realised that most responses were from visa seekers or men seeking a second wife.

I married a revert but parents want me to divorce her.

Alhamdulillah, she´s living in islam now, but my family members not like this marriage they ask me to divorce but wallahi i don´t like to divorce. But I can’t say anything to my parents.

Difficulties in having a straightfoward nikah because of fear of my family

I am wishing to get married this year to my fiancé inshallah, who does not live in the same country as me and is of different nationality. We are hoping to start a life together, and for this to happen we must be married as is dutiful to Allah. However, my own family situation makes it difficult to publicise this and gain the permission of my relatives.

Can I get a certificate to prove I am Muslim?

I am so grateful to you who are able to give a reply to my queries especially sister z. It was so very valuable that i keep reading your advice daily which gives me a lot of confidence. As i mentioned earlier i had embraced islam 5 years back and still following it with love and sincerity.

How can I convince my parents to marry me to my atheist boyfriend without hurting them?

I am in2 this relationship with a non muslim guy for 5 yrs…though he is an atheist bt takes a lot of pride in his name…the problem is so that now v both want to get married…his parents have agreed quite reluctantly…bt there is a lot of prob from my side..