Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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How can I make my father understand? and why do I have no say in my future?

I am a 30 year old Pakistani girl and have been with someone for two years we have met several times face to face and over the 2 years are feeling for each other are getting stronger. He lives in another country and I live in the UK. The problem is that I mentioned to my family a year ago that I wanted to get married to this man (he’s an Arab) but they can not come over the cultural differences and how the community would perceive them. I have asked my father many occasions to speak to him and he’s refused, he wants nothing to do with it.

Son unable to approach Mother about Marriage with Non-Muslim Friend

I am a Pakistani Muslim who is living in the United States. I met a Christian girl from Colombia whom I’ve become friends with (we are not dating) In the last year, we have become very close and my mother has no problem with us being friends, because I have explained to my friend about my religion and its restrictions.

How many times should I do Istikhara before seeing result?

I want to know that, if istekhara comes negative then how much time required to see the istikhara again. Actually I like a girl who is the niece of my friend, we like each other very much, and fallen in love but did not go beyond the limits of shariyah, both the families are also agree to make the relation, in this concern, first of all my friend brought proposal of her niece to me, then the same night he saw a nightmare.

Marriage to muslim convert and disobedience to parents

I fell in love with a non muslim girl five years ago and carried our relationship till now. Now we decided to get married and she is ready to embrace Islam. But my parents are totally against this. I had tried to talk to them but they are very firm on there decision even if she converts.

Practicing Muslim looking for wife

Asslam Alykum;
I am looking a REAL Muslim girl to be a long life wife. I am a practicing Muslim his religion is the first priority in his life. I hope you could help me find what I am looking for…. Jazakum Allah Khair