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Does kissing another female break his nikah?

When a man commits sin by doing kissing and touching his wife’s sister (or in other words his sister in law) but doesn’t do sex and then does tobah – does his nikah remain valid?

How do I go about getting a divorce from my husband?

I was going through menopause and was not very sexual with my husband. I know it was not a good thing to do, for my husband went to someone else and cheated on me.

My husband keeps cheating on me, how can I forgive him?

Just before our wedding, my husband physically cheated on me, he apologized, said it was stress due to his mothers alcoholism so I forgave him. However, throughout our marriage, whenever I went on a holiday to see my parents, I found that he spoke to women online etc, but I have forgiven him every time (4 times till now).

My husband hates his stepdaughter

I got married to someone from Pakistan. Neither of us were happy in this marriage, he became very violent with me as did I. Then, I made the worst mistake of my life, I was seperated from him and I met someone else. I began having an affair, astagfirullah. Then my parents told me I have to give my husband another chance so I did, trying to finish my affair.

Spouse cheating, guidance appreciated

Asalaam alaikum. I am a reverted muslimah, since Spring 2009 (before I was married). I was married to a good hearted muslim man the following year, alhamduliAllah. He comes from a good family, and he has a very caring nature mashaAllah. This is my 2nd marriage, but my first marriage in Islam.  My husband has […]

My husband is an alcoholic, gambler, smokes weed and keeps having sex with other women.

I m 35 and have been married for 9 yrs with 2 small kids. My husband gambles, drinks and then has sex with other women. He smokes weed. He also goes to nude bars. When I tell him to quit, he gets aggressive and becomes very abusive. We have not slept together for almost 2 […]

I committed adultery, how can I gain Allah’s forgiveness?

I am looking for advice, I converted to islam 3 years ago through marriage. 2 years ago I committed adultery twice. I was going through a bad time with my husband at the time.

I am new Muslim and I made a mistake; please help me out.

I hug her and I did more wrong things with her (no intercourse). I promised to merry her and during this I told her that I converted to Islam she cried even more and left the room. I realised that I made a mistake and repented.

I committed a grave sin and feel guilty and ashamed. I always pray for forgiveness but should I tell my wife?

I regret till today; I can’t sleep properly of course; I feel really bad. I told my wife half of the story but not the full story what happened and she forgave me but I can’t think properly of what I did and I want to tell her the truth about what happened.

We both wanted to marry but his mother doesn’t agree because I am a revert

He said that he will keep in touch via mail which I doubt and said that he will try once more with his mom because his mom was very upset about our intimate relationship. He told me that don’t give up hope and make a lot of dua. I am still so hurt and I am going crazy without him beside me; at least to hear his voice once a day. I miss him so much and I am praying to Allah to give him back to me and cry a lot.