Tag Archive for ‘cousin’

Marriage: Young & Confused
5 years ago, I started crushing on my cousin in law when I first met him at my cousin (and his brother’s) wedding. We live like 400 miles apart, so we don’t see each other often so I would have expected to totally get over it, but that doesn’t seem to be the case at all. I saw him and his family about 2 months ago when they came, and I think I’ve fallen in love with him!

Since he left me I don’t eat and I cry all the time
i really dont think i can marry anyone else anymore .. for me i already accepted him as my husband and still i cannot believe that he did this to me… i still thinks he will come back one day as he talked to me damn rudely…

I love my cousin and want to marry her but i dont know if she loves me too
I love my cousin so much that I cannot explain it to you. I saw her once when I was 10 years old at that young age I had no idea about love stuff but I just liked her.

Can muslims marry first cousins ?
I am confused about the marriage of cousins, like daughters of my paternal uncles or paternal aunts or maternal uncles and maternal aunts. It is very clearly mentioned in Quran, Surah 33 (Al-Ahzab), Ayat 50 that only Prophet Mohammad (Be peace upon him) got that privilege from Allah (SOA) due to migration.

I love my cousin, but I don’t know if he feels the same.
For a few years, we lost touch, but regained contact when I was 17 through social networking and MSN. We’ve become each other’s life coaches and good sources of motivation for one another since then and although everyone in my family pokes fun at our close relationship..

He had an affair because I was mean
My husband had an affair with his cousin, someone he loved for 5 years before our marriage, her parents refused to get him married to her so he looked for other proposals and got married to me. He didnt like me from the very beginning our marriage was only based on istikhaara..

Parents are getting me married to a cousin I have not met
I’m very concerned about my future. I am 21 and I’m studying nursing and expecting to study medicine in the future Inshallah. My parents are afraid what people can say about me, because it’s not usual in my country seeing a musilim woman not married at such age (most of my muslim friends were married when they were 16 or 17).

Husband is acting suspiciously and I dont trust him
Once againe i have to ask your advise regarding my suspicious the thing is i wrote to this web site telling everything is OK after he came back from haj he is changed the thing is he is still loving as always and helpful towards me but still i cant help checking his call log cause he never admitted about what went on and still on the call logs there are calls between him and his cousin now they are calls in the land line numbers not the mobile were one can trace it.

Can Allah MAKE someone think about something?
I really want to marry him, and i dont want to become that kind of woman who has any relationship and just does it for fun. I fell for him with my mind ready for what i might have to face and i fell for him knowing that he IS the right guy. All i need to know is can Allah Swt make this happen if he wills it to happen?

I was sexually molested by my older cousin and I don’t know what to do
The night my older cousin molested me was a really long time ago. I was 12, he was 23, I was immature and saw him in the same light as i saw my own brother who was the same age -I was still a kid (fasting was not wajib on me yet).