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I’ve read that suicide committed by a mentally ill person is accepted

Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts but I can’t kill myself due to Islamic reasons. But lately the articles I read state the acceptance of committing suicide in state of mental disorder or depression (Allah knows best), so it got me really thinking. I’m still praying thank God, and still do not lose complete hope in Allah.

I hate life, I hate everything!

I’m really depressed right now. I just don’t know what to do. I’m losing hope in everything. I fell in love and now am not with him. I left it and changed myself and I knew it was haram, so we broke up but it wasn’t the right way.

Two failed online relationships! Now what?

I am a young girl of 19 years. I fell in love with two different guys online, and both betrayed me.

Heartbroken: I rejected one and then was rejected by the other

I had to break up with one guy because of my family, then I was turned down by another. Is it fair what this guy did to me?

problems with sisters

My mother works everyday day & night. She works continuesly in our house. She does all the households everyday that she dosen’t even get a time to rest. Because of that she got a blood pressure. My father took her to the hospital and the doctor said that she need to rest or her health will get worse.

Muslim fiance betrayed me

I am a non muslim, I was supposed to get married to him this year, he is a muslim. We were together for 3 years we already meet each other families and everyone knows we are getting married soon.

I need reasons to not kill myself and fast

Ok so I’m not islam I’m athiest but I have thought about converting. But I need help. I’m 13 and I’ve always had attitude problems. But it has gotten worse since my mother’s boyfriend has moved in. He has violated me in the past so I don’t even know why my mother took him in again. And now I’m being bullied in school because of a boy I really like.

Constant bad dua from my mother

I have a recurring problem at home. My mother constantly gives baddua. It is very depressing. She will give baddua over everything. If I forget to flush the toilet, baddua. If I forget to clean up my room, baddua. If I text someone from my phone, baddua. If I wake up late, baddua. If I agree with my brother on converting a girl to Islam and marrying her…. baddua. (BTW she hasn’t spoken to him in over 2 years) I think you get the point.

I cannot take this abuse, so is it haraam to move out?

I want to leave my house. I’ll be 18 in a few months. I can’t stand my family anymore. I’m a girl and I know I shouldn’t live alone but I can’t take it anymore. I’ve been depressed for as long as I can remember. My father has been abusing me for as long as I can remember. I’ve been through all types of abuse. My mother would try and protect me but she’s a sick woman. She’s has high blood pressure and Diabetes. I know it’s tough on her since my dad tortured her for 20 long years.

Please, give me reasons not to kill myself

I never wanted to be a lesbian. I didn’t choose this. For the past six years I’ve been hurting myself physically such as cutting and starving myself because I felt like I needed to punish myself because of me being gay.