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In love with a non-Muslim girl
I am in love with a girl who is not a Muslim. We started as friends a few months ago and right now the relationship has become so intense that we are now lovers.
Why do we fall in Love? Will the ones who betray be punished by Allah?
If person lyks any1 want to marry..as there is permission in islam to get married by their choice..as love marriage.. why boys r hurting so much? y they r playin wid feelin n lives..they dnt feel mercy at girls life?? why they r destroyin them? some of them got trapped in fake love n loose their virginty and some of them havin miserable life bcoz of betrayal..cheating.. alone, stressed..mentally tortured etc
Erotic discussions with my fiance lead me to masturbation, please help me stop
Well, i’m engaged, me and my fiance are really in love with each other. We are not allowed to meet alone due to us not married yet. We talk over the phone like everyday. At night sometimes we get in the mood and have erotic discussions. This then leads to me being really badly needing to be satisfied. I then end up watching porn and masturbating.
A Muslim man is the father of my new born baby, who now ignores us
I met a Muslim man from Afghanistan and we started seeing each other and fell in love. I will call him “Fred”. I have never met Fred’s family and he has never met mine. Four Months into our relationship I became pregnant. I was happy, but nervous and scared because we hadn’t been together very long and I wasn’t sure how Fred would react.
I have cheated on my boyfriend, how can I get him back?
I was in a relationship with a guy for seven years when I was living back home; by that time we also committed zina. I met this new guy who was a very good person, always prayed Salaah and motivated me to do so. I tried to manage things and we were in a good place with our relationship and even decided to get married as I have also committed zina with him. I’m trying to repent to Allah but whenever I ask myself why did I cheat?
I let a man use me and ditch me, and now I am full of regret.
I told him he has used me and then ditched me,and now he was satisfied. He said yes, he used me and now he is satisfied. That made me feel even worse. Since then, I have lost my self-esteem and feel very sad, I’m so depressed and feel used and dirty.
How do I live the life of a pious muslim in a secular society? Must I abandon my women friends?
I am growing more and more isolated, and I am trying to develop friendships with Muslims at my Masjid, but this takes time, and I did find comfort and support from my woman friends before I reverted, and did not even think about zina with several of the long term friends. Maybe Shaytan is playing with my mind and trying to convince me I can remain friends with women.
HOCD- How can I get rid of it?
I tell myself that homosexuality is a combination of society and childhood experiences, and I am not “born” like this. I researched and tried to understand all of human sexuality, how people become attracted to someone, how it changes, why I did what I did, what it means.
Is there anything I can do to get him back in my life?
I really want him to realise what he lost after this breakup and also at the same time I want him back in my life with a honest commitment. Please tell me if you can pray for me to Allah to get success from this lost relationship.
All I want to do is the right thing, but my boyfriend is making it difficult!
am so afraid that I am doing wrong! I am having patience with him to become a Muslim and praying for it…but he cries everytime I say I don’t know if I am doing right because I want to marry, not have a relationship.
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