Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘haraam relationships’

Two failed online relationships! Now what?

I am a young girl of 19 years. I fell in love with two different guys online, and both betrayed me.

Is our marriage still legal after his conversion?

Hi, good day to all of you.  I am not a Muslim but I respect your religion and beliefs.  My husband and I are married in a Christian church.  But then, we got problems and got separated.  We are not yet legally separated but I found out that he converted to Islam.  If he is […]

Help! how to talk to muslim parents?

He told his mom about me, but his mom was very negative – she called me a whore and that I’m lying about my interest in converting to Islam because I only want his money.

relationship guilt and depression

 I used to be in a haram relationship with a boy, he promised me marriage and everything.  I know it was wrong but I believed it and because of that I did sinful acts. I did not lose my virginity but other than that I have done everything else.  I felt so guilty about everything and I started doing […]

He has now left me and we have committed zina

I am extremely ashamed of even being here and asking for guidance. Recently the person I was with for a very long time has now left me. I have never been with anyone before him, and was pure, so was he. We have always had the intention that one day we will marry and make the relationship halal as soon as possible. We have one day committed zina and it carried on for a while.

Is this marriage valid?

My Q is? If I convince my family and get married as she said, is such Nikkah valid as my intention is not good. Does halal marriage fulfilled only using witness and wali? I hope you understand my question but she is pushing me so hard. I don’t know what is her benefit? and to be honest with you, she knows I am not happy and will leave her some day.

Advice needed for pregnant non-Muslim to a Muslim mother to be.

Also I feel his parents are being unfair in forcing us to ‘marry’ it is something I want to do with him but its also something I want to spend months planning and not have my mother in law plan everything FOR ME in a matter of weeks.

I can’t stop thinking about her. How can I get rid of these feelings?

I hacked her Yahoo! mailbox then sent her some messages about her personal tastes. When she found out she was furious. I can’t stop myself from thinking about her…

Husband keeps looking at porn and dirty pics of women

I am also afraid this will cause him to have needs outside our marriage as shaytan will do anything and allowing himself with this fantasy will lead to that. I want to be honest with him. I am worried he will get angry as I know this is his personality. I am trying to be good wife, worthy of Allah and I never ever have gazed at another man.

I don’t want to take her as second wife but she doesn’t understand. Please help.

I know this second marriage will ruin both of our life as I will not be able to handle this which I am sure. I have confessed this to her. Explained the post marriage problems but she does not understand and say that she won’t marry anyone else.