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How can I stop my husband from drinking alcohol?

I am 26 and have been married 8 years. My husband drinks alcohol and does not care about the fact that I despise alcohol. This has caused a lot of issues in our marriage. We are in marriage therapy as well but it seems like nothing will help the issue.

Married revert – where do my loyalties lie, with my non Muslim husband or Allah?

I am a new revert to Islam, having only taken my Shahadat a week ago. For the past few years I have had a strong interest in Islam and finally took this big step to proclaim myself in the Islamic faith. I am married and have an 11 year old daughter, but have been seperated from my husband (although still living under the same roof) for more than a year. Although he was a good man and provided well for my daughter and I, my husband, being Japanese, did not have the same yearning for religion that I had and it would be very difficult for him to accept me as a muslim wife.

Should I marry a man who refuses to share his past with me?

Hi I am a girl of 23 years old. I live in UAE. My family is very simple yet modern. I love a man who is 33 of age. I am in love with him since last 4 years.

When our relationship started I didn’t know that he was married before. I made up my entire mind in all aspect to marry him I used to ask him to marry him but he asked me to wait but I wasn’t ever inquisitive because I’m myself studying now.

Unstable harmony – beatings by husband who loves me

My arms which were smooth are now covered in scars. He kicks me in my belly, he hits me in the face, chokes me, anyhow, becomes very violent. And when I kick back or push him away, he says I am very wrong for doing so. I should never even come close to pushing my husband. He beats me because I were to become disobedient. And it’s true that I have some issues with obedience. I sometimes can’t keep up. There are lots of things I need to change, but I can’t do it in one day, one month or even one year, it takes time. I do want to change.

Husband is not interested in sex

I was engaged for 5 years and now its been 2 years we got married. Before marriage my hubby used to love me alot and we were even involved in sexual acts which I always regret. Since we’ve got married, he changed alot now. He seems soo much busy that he dont give me time, always stressed out because of work pressure, even our sex life is not at all going good, he only come to me once in 1 and half or 2 months.

Husband cheated but no physical contact

After 2 years of marriage, I found out that my husband was cheating on me with my own cousin. I found nude pictures of my cousin sent to him, and chats between them which were very intimate and affectionate.

Cheating husband

I am new here and in need of advice. I converted 3years ago but just now I’m getting close to Allah. Alhamdulillah. I am still married but I don’t think it will last much longer. I have been married for 10 yrs, I have a 3 yr old daughter and a 2 yr old. My husband cheated on me 2 yrs into the marriage and i forgave him although it has always been in the back of my mind.

My husband is an alcoholic, gambler, smokes weed and keeps having sex with other women.

I m 35 and have been married for 9 yrs with 2 small kids. My husband gambles, drinks and then has sex with other women. He smokes weed. He also goes to nude bars. When I tell him to quit, he gets aggressive and becomes very abusive. We have not slept together for almost 2 […]

husband cannot defend my rights in front of his family, he has no say of his own.

I am a 25 yr old girl married for 10 months. My problem is my habit of saying the truth and following principles. My husband shows care for me with his words. I show care for him with words and actions. My husband fulfils my wishes and demands, but when a matter of comparison comes […]

Husband has gone far from me since I refused intercourse

I had nikkah, but no ruksati, the next day my husband left for abroad, he came back after 3 months and asked me to come to him for intercourse. Although I wanted to do it too, I refused..