Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Engaged to another woman in his home country – what can I do?

I told him I will come to Iraq in someway. I don’t think he will be able to keep his promise of protecting me if I go there. But the pain is too much and I cannot let him go. I want to be his forever.

Getting over a divorce

Throughout the marriage he never told me what he was struggling with and it all came at once. It’s like divorce is nothing to him and he told me he has no feeling for me and everything we had was pretend.

I got nikkahfied to my cousin but I just cannot like him in that way.

I only said yes to my parents cause he lives in America and I just couldn’t say no to my father.

I’ve tried, but I don’t love my wife

I don’t love her, I don’t even like her voice, and when I see other girls I feel like I could have married them instead. I feel so sad for both of us. She knows that I don’t love her, and she is seven months pregnant, but still I don’t call and talk to her.

Confession about pornography and masturbation

So a few weeks later, I was up late night at on the laptop, everyone was asleep, and Shaitan got the best of me. I knew that I shouldn’t, but I just couldn’t keep myself away so I opened up a website and found myself thoroughly disturbed. As a matter of fact, I felt so upset that I called my husband and confessed to him and he said it’s okay…

Since I quit my job, he doesn’t like me

The way he treated me after I quit my job was totally different. No more jokes. No more laughing. No more chatting. He even hardly looked at my face. It feels like he hates me a lot because I quit my job, and this is a burden to him. I tried to talk to him a lot about this, but he avoided it by telling me this is not the right time to talk about our relationship.

How do I prove myself to his parents?

We met on Facebook. I’m proud to say I’m now a Muslim thanks to him showing me Islam. I need help knowing how to impress his parents. What would you do if he was your son?

Writing to the man who my mum wants me to marry

I do not have any particular feelings for him… I will marry wherever my parents will ask me to. My mum says I should mail him once in a while and in this way keep in touch. Once in a month I mail him, he sometimes replies and is very decent, but now I have started feeling it’s wrong to be sending mails like this.

We are married, but my husband refrains from sex

we have both never had sex before, I thought that once it is halal for a Muslim person, why would he/she wait? We already have to wait so long until marriage to have sex. (Makes me wonder if he is gay or something.)

How can I achieve marriage with no contact whatsoever?

I know this guy from the time I was studying in my 8th standard, he was my neigbour and is my neigbour even now. As years passed by we used to at times just smile at each other. This was when I wasn’t very Islamic and then later on it so happened that we started loving each other, but would just look at each other and smile and at times just communicate in sign language, we never spoke to each other, never met