Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Can Allah MAKE someone think about something?

I really want to marry him, and i dont want to become that kind of woman who has any relationship and just does it for fun. I fell for him with my mind ready for what i might have to face and i fell for him knowing that he IS the right guy. All i need to know is can Allah Swt make this happen if he wills it to happen?

I’m confused, did we commit zina?

i met this girl online. we used to chat every day thru mobile. we both love each other a lot. now one day i dont know what got into me i told her i wanna have phone s*x with you and if u dont do i will leave you (yes i blackmailed her).

My parents disowned me for accepting Islam and I am lonely as I cannot yet marry

I am an Italian girl of 21 years old and exactly one year ago I converted to Islam. I am currently living in Rome and I am engaged to a Iraqi guy and we love each other so so much. But we are living far and we are just waiting each other to marry inshAllah once I will finish my degree. We meet just once a year when I travel to Syria. My family is catholic and they said that “they dont consider me anymore their daughter”.

I am 27, my wife is 18 and we don’t get along

In December, I met my wife on a matrimonial website and we started talking and immediately felt a vibe together. I am 27 years old and she is 18 years old. I had been looking to get married and for some reason or the other, by Allah’s decree, we weren’t getting good proposals and it was sort of frustrating me as all my friends were getting married and I needed someone to help me keep away from sins. Anyway, she approached me on the website wondering if I would be interested in marrying a young girl. I obliged and things went from there.

Jewish man in love with a Muslim girl – should I tell our families?

I’m a Jewish man in love with a Muslim girl. I wrote her poetry from my heart, and I support her decisions, I will raise my children as Muslims, for I have always loved Islam, even if I am Jewish. I wrote her mother a letter that Aisha does not know of, asking her mother for forgiveness and to give me a chance to explain myself.

We’re in love, but her family won’t accept me because I’m not Indian?

My love and I met online, and we have been communicating for quite a while now. Her father and mother both refuse to even speak with me, verbally, or by email, or any other means. They told her it’s out of the question, and they are bringing a guy from the USA to her in August to meet up with and I’m so afraid they’ll force her to marry him.

I have been married for 3.5 years but we’ve lived together for only 3 weeks. Please tell me what to do with my marriage and my life.

I met my husband over the internet. He came to Indonesia for the nikah, then after three weeks went back to Karachi, Pakistan. Since then it has been 3.5 years, and I have not seen him again. We talk over the phone, and he always makes excuses about why he has not brought me to join him in Pakistan.

I’m a 17 year old girl in love and keeping it secret

I am a seventeen year old girl living in the UK. I am in love with a guy, and we eventually want to get married. Currently he’s not living in the same country as me, so we only talk through calls and texts. We do not have a physical relationhsip and my parents do not know about him.