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I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, but my father has threatened to kill me if I choose my own husband.

I would like to begin this query by asking Almighty Allah to forgive me for all that I have done. In some way I know I may not have done the right thing but I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore. I live in a family where, for me it has been a nightmare. I know Islam tells you to respect your parents but what my family has done with me I cannot respect my parents.

I dont get on with my Mother and I’m lonely

I’m an unmarried single Muslim sister, I have never dated in my life or had any haram interactions with a guy. I know there are plenty of sisters out there in the same boat as me, so that’s only part of the matter that is affecting me, my mother does care about these things, when she was my age she had already got 4 kids and was running a whole household.

Need advice in disciplining my 11 year old daughter

My 11 year old daughter is a wonderful kid. But this past week she has stunned me by lying about school detention and today I found my expensive perfume was missing. I went to the school and asked her about it, and she admitted to me that she took it and gave it to her friend. I was so disappointed and heart broken that she has done these decieving things.

Son unable to approach Mother about Marriage with Non-Muslim Friend

I am a Pakistani Muslim who is living in the United States. I met a Christian girl from Colombia whom I’ve become friends with (we are not dating) In the last year, we have become very close and my mother has no problem with us being friends, because I have explained to my friend about my religion and its restrictions.

My mother taunts me, curses me and tells me to die

Dear Wael, Can u please set me up with one of your counselors, i need help.
I’m 21 years old, we r 7 brothers and sisters, ive faced emotional abuse for my whole life, my mother wanted first son and i was born, im the oldest, she hates me since that day. she taunts me curses me and keeps telling me to die, she keeps saying that i shuld have died at birth as it would have been good for all of us,and that im the worst thing that ever happened to her, she says i will never have a normal life and i will live painfully for who i am

What does Islam say about having Life Insurance Policies?

I know a person who may or may not be related to me. Recently, I found out that he had a life insurance policy on his mother. The mother has passed away (Allah give her a space in heaven Ameen). He has recieved some good amount of money.

I am very angry and upset that he had a life insurance on his mother

Palestinian girl in love with a Persian man and our mothers are blocking the way

I am nineteen, and about to graduate from college with my degree. I’m Palestinian, and the man I want to marry is Persian. We are six years in age difference. My family wants him to return to college and get a higher degree before marrying me. His mother dislikes me because I am Palestinian, even though his father approves of me. He lives a normal, simple life, and is established since a young age. He is very religious, mashallah, and my father approves. Our mothers are critical of us, his be