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Is it wrong for me to ask Allah to be blessed with a baby boy?

I want to get him out of my head and start believing this is a different baby, but my mind keeps going back to him! Is it wrong if I pray for a boy? His face is just always in my mind, how do I stop thinking about him and start looking forward to our new baby, inshallah?

Two C-Sections and Pregnant Again – Can I Abort?

I had my C-section 7 months before now I am 4 weeks pregnant. This will be my third c section but I’m not physically healed from my previous one. My stitches still hurts me.

Shall I conceive or not?

Every night he is making love with me to make me pregnant, but I am taking pills without informing him. I know it is a sin. Also my teenage kids are against my pregnancy, and also against their new father. My husband has told me that if I don’t conceive, then he will divorce me.

Husband does not want to have children yet

I think he is not completely honest with me, and has some medical condition which he is not sharing with me. We have not come closer yet (no intercourse) and he refuses to get any tests done.

I’m young and pregnant: Help me sisters and brothers!

Can I marry my partner even though I am pregnant (I always wanted to get married; was just waiting for him to become stable)? Shall I just marry and keep the baby, although I’m so young? Or shall I terminate this pregnancy -and I don’t know know if it will help- and leave my partner?

Pregnant after caring for a sick man

I met a man about 2 years ago who became gravely sick a week after we met. I was there while he was hospitalized all the way until he came home after surgery. However, fast forward a year and a half later I’m 7 weeks pregnant and confused as to what step we need to initiate before the birth of this child being that it was sex before marriage.

my wife committed zina, got pregnant, and had a haram nikkah

Later the woman and her man ran away 1000 kilometers to where her dad had moved. Surprisingly, the dad married my wife to him without my divorce, and then all my uncles teamed up against me and told me to do whatever I want. This they did despite my cries, pleading and my tears. It was done, as I came to learn, as a way to hide shame and conceal embarrassment by their daughter; but to me it really hurt and depressed me.

Muslim woman, unmarried and pregnant

We have found out we are expecting a child. He has always wanted to convert to Islam, we were just waiting to graduate from college. We would really like to get married before the baby is born.

Is my nikah valid or invalid?

I found out I was pregnant and didn’t really know who the father was… I decided to stick to the new guy and told him “I’m carrying your baby”. We agreed to go ahead and have a nikah. Is my nikah valid as I’m still with him? I feel ashamed…

I have a phobia of hospitals; please help me overcome

I have a phobia, which I developed I think from my first prgnancy. An uncontrollable fear/phobia of hospitals/doctors/BP apparatus. Im now carrying my second baby, and it is required to visit the doctor and check for BP.