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Tag Archive for ‘Problems with Exes’

How do I stop seeing and being intimate with him?

I don’t know how to stop myself. Everytime I see him we have to be physical and I try so hard not to. I want to marry him but now he won’t but don’t understand why he won’t as he keeps avoiding the question. However, I see trouble ahead as another Muslim Man has appeared to be interested in me and I sincerely believe that he follows the faith correctly and he would marry me.

Unfortunately, I am divorcing my 2nd wife due to my own problems

I married my first wife in 2002, she married secretly and was reverted from Hinduism. We had 2 children and I messed up and ended-up in jail for a year. I took my kids with me to Bangladesh and I got married to my first cousin and she came after appeal against the UK government’s refusal of her visa. In arguments my wife wasn’t happy with my intention to marry another girl. She walked out with the baby, I was heartbroken. I broke up with the new girl; I didn’t realize how much I loved my wife.

I am engaged to be married but my ex-boyfriend is blackmailing me

2 years back I fell in love with a guy who wanted to marry me, we did not intend to have any romantic relationship instead wanted to get married but my family refused but we kept on talking as it was really hard for us to be apart after the attachment…

We both are married but we still love each other and been intimate together. Please help

Until one day, I decided to marry the girl I just met, thinking that the other one is so far from me and long distance relationship most of the time don’t work. Then she couldn’t believe that I got married; she cried I caused her pain which she carried out for years. Even if she really loves me, she doesn’t like to be my second wife. And sometimes she have the guts to ask for a divorce. Until one day, I received a divorce agreement from her family, asking me to sign the papers. Yesterday, she got married and I told her, just pretend that you have your monthly period to avoid having intercourse and tell him that ramadan is also coming. The main purpose is to avoid confusion later on if who’s the father (if she will able to conceive).