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We are separated – now what?

He says he does not want a divorce and that he does not take it lightly, yet he mentions he is going to get his own house and wants the kids to sleep over some days. This honestly doesn’t make sense to me.

Demand of huq meher during separation

They are not sending us the divorce notice so that they could save the huq meher amount.

She won’t reconcile, but I don’t want to divorce

No one in our circle of family or friends wants us to separate, yet she isn’t willing to listen to anyone. All I constantly hear are the mistakes I have made which led her to become the way she is now. I pray someone can relay the message of her actions are acting as an anchor pulling the ship to sink.

Fast Marriage and Faster Problems

There is nothing with me now… becoz of me, my parents, relatives are ashamed and deeply hurt. Shall I leave her and find new life?

My mother-in-law and sister-in-law are destroying my marriage

My husband is severely controlled by his sister and mother. He told me his sister is next perfect to Allah and always right so he has to obey. He doesn’t see how abnormal it is that he sleeps in the same bed as his mother and not his wife…

Talaaq given twice before rukhsati – is iddah necessary?

Before rukhsati my husband has given me two times talaaq over the telephone in anger. Is iddah necessary on me? And if he wants me back what should he do?

not sure what I am doing wrong?

The next morning he woke up got dressed and started to pack his things. He told me he will not stay in a house where he is being ignored and Ramadan starts tomorrow, and he can’t stay in this house with me for it. He left after calling me names and telling me things like no one will want me after him, that I am used…a lot of mean things.

I was divorced but wish to give our relation another chance

I have recently gotten divorced. at the time i was sure i wanted to end my marraige but now after divorcing im having second thoughts

My wife left me without letting me know, I forced myself into her house

she left my home and took another house and of course my daughter with her, all that happened without letting me know anything and any permission from my side at all, I kept very calm in order to try to work things back between us then after 5 months I forced myself and moved to her house but I’m living in a room

How will my broken heart heal again?

I recently went through a divorce and going through pain, and I know there are many people whom have broken hearts whether through a separation, divorce or lost someone in life.