Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Arab Muslim wants to marry Non-Arab Convert

I have been secretly (from my parents) dating a non-Arab girl.
I am a first generation Palestinian-American. She is an American. I am very very very much in love with her. We know we want to spend our lives together.
I am 21 and she is 20..

Marriage without telling your parents

I dated this guy for about 3 years and he is absolutely amazing and I really do love him, and he loves me alot. But we are not in a relationship anymore because its haraam, but we are commited to each other..

Wait to finish studies to marry?

What is the ruling concerning a daughter who has found a muslim brother to marry and settle down with but the father wants to prolong it by a year because educational pursuit,

Still not found the right partner for marriage

I am an educated British Pakistani man born and bred in England, who is trying to find the right woman to settle down with. It’s not fair as most of the people that I work with have taken all the girls at my workplace now they are thinking of getting married. There was one Pakistani girl that I really liked,but then she decided to go for a jerk…

Can I keep him as my boyfriend if we are not doing haraam

I am at the University and since 2 years a friend and I have fallen in love with each other.
We have planned to get married in 5 years because at present we are still studiyng, the guy does not have a job and our parents will object for a marriage at this stage. This means our status is that of a boyfriend and girlfriend.

Reverted muslim wants to marry, but her parents are not happy

I am a reverted muslim, I accepted islam around 3 years back. For me, the driving force behind studying Islam and Alhamdulillah embracing it, was hatred towards the religion of Islam. Though I was not completely against Islam yet I never liked it much in the past strangely, during my college days I fell in love with a muslim girl because of her simplicity, very modest dressing, understanding level, intelligence and extremely modest behaviour….

I want to marry boyfriend but mother wants me to keep options open

I am a 20 year old Muslim Girl..and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2years.He is 22 years old and a Muslim too know what I did was haraam and we ended up in commiting zina and lost our virginity to each other once even though deep in my heart I didn’t want to do it.But somehow at the moment I lost track of what was right and wrong…

Converted but doubting my future

The friend who introduced me to Islam has gone back to Pakistan and I feel cut off from furthering my knowledge as I do not know any muslim women in the area and I am too shy to venture to the mosque on my own. On top of this, the change in my lifetsyle and faith has meant that friends and family who don’t understand have lost touch leaving me quite lonely..

His mother is delaying the proposal

I was being involved in a relationship during 11 yrs.(it was a childhood love & friendhip).I restrict myself fro all worldly desires and just wished to have a pure and clean relationship with him.

Maybe pregnant, his father won´t let him marry me

So my questions are first of all, if I am pregnant, how do I go about breaking this news to him and his family (who thinks we are e-mail buddies)? Secondly, how do I handle this situation of marriage with his family? I feel that I have exhausted my resources and done everything I can do.