Tag Archive for ‘want to marry’

26 year old male needs to marry
What should I do? How can I find a girl myself? All the girls that I meet outside are promiscuous and immoral.

After 6 years in a relationship she won’t marry me
She’s stated that things are really messed for her in her head and surroundings and she needs to figure things out, that she wants to be alone, she wants me to carry on with life, she feels like I come in the way of her decisions and that she can’t risk it anymore because its changing her as a person.

I found out she was married 6 months later
Six months later she decided to tell me the truth: that she was married with not one but 4 children, and she still lived with her husband. I have never felt so much hurt and anger in all my life! She told me that she loved me and not her husband, and that she wishes that she was with me. I know I should have walked away from her when she told me the truth, but I couldn’t as I love her so much.

Do I need consent to marry based on race?
I’m a Pakistani and the guy I would like to marry is a Jamaican Muslim (convert). He has been a Muslim for over a year now and is on the straight path Mash’Allah.

In love with a Christian boy in a band.
I don’t know when and how should I tell him the truth about me- that I’m a muslim girl and I can’t be with him. My friend told me he has been having feelings for me for a long time too and he’s planning to ask me out. So, should I tell him the truth about me?

Colorblind love – MUST he convert?
This boy is pure of heart and a very, very smart person. He said he would go to the mosque with my dad and live in the Muslim culture but won’t be able to covert to Islam.

In love and it hurts. Will Allah answer me? And please tell me: why are cousins allowed to marry?
Over the years, my mother has had some kind of idea that I’ve liked him, but I’ve always denied it. But this year, I finally let my guard down and told her everything, even the girlfriend part. She knows literally everything. But telling her has probably been the best thing I’ve ever done. She has helped me so much and listened to me. She is very religious and always prays and reads Quran. She knows my cousin very well also and is helping me draw him in with dua. I recently started praying 5 times a day because I’ve realized that the only way to someone’s heart is through Allah

Can I marry this person if I married in America
I am an american citizen legally married in the united states. However, I have met this wonderful person in Pakistan and I would like to marry her. I have had conversations with her and have been very honest with her and have informed her that I am legally married in the U.S. and have a wife there. She accepts me as I am and is willing to become my second wife. Can I have a second wife in Pakistan and marry her in pakistan? I don’t know if this is allowed or not. Also, if the Pakistan courts and governments will allow me to marry her. Please, I need some advice and opinions.

We want to be together but his family refuses
His father told him that he must marry a girl whose parents are BOTH Arab and BOTH Muslim. The guy has pretty much told me that he would do anything for my hand besides ignore his father, because this would end up with him being disowned. We were both so upset, but he told me it just wouldn’t work.

Everyone is against us because I’m Arab and he’s Indian
I am scared to bring him home because my father will make a big issue out of it and might harm me physically (hit me) and send me to my home country away from this man. I know that he won’t listen to what I have to say no matter what. According to Islam I know that I am not wrong, Allah does not mention in the Quran that one should only marry of same race, we can marry anyone as long as they are muslims right?