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Promise made over Quran, is there any way to break it?

He had no other choice, so he made a promise over Quran in front of his family and our friends. Now he still loves me. Insha Allah, I definitely know he will marry me or will stay a bachelor forever. Same-I will also marry him or none. So is there any way he can talk to me again? It will break the promise. I know it is a very big sin. But I can’t imagine a life without him. Please guide me.

I have a lot to offer, but my parents are not getting me married.

I cannot tell my family about my depression. I just don’t know how to communicate this to my parents that I want to get married. There are a lot of really close unmarried females in my family, and they are really unhappy and I am terrified. I am really tired of being misunderstood, and I don’t want to disrespect my parents. I just dont know how to go about it.

Can we marry in another country?

My boyfriend had an arranged marriage 3 years ago. Now we want to get married, but he can’t tell his family about it. His wife came from a rich family, and they are making problems for him. Is there a possibility for us to get married in another country? Please help. -angel pak

I hurt him too much

My behaviour changed him and he was not happy with me. Now he is saying that I have hurt him a lot in many ways which changed his feelings, but he still loves me and needs some time to be normal. He says we should make dua, and if it’s in our destiny we will marry.

I love him, and everything about Islam, but I’m married.

Salam, I need advice. I’m Aliesha. I’m christian and married, but separated. Right now I’m in a relationship with a muslim man. He is single and he accepts me for everything. He is a good person and we’re planning to get married in 6 months. I accept him and I accept to be converted to Islam also. I love him- […]

The dream seems to be coming true!

I am seriously freaking out because I think he was the perfect one for me. I don’t know when, but I started loving him so much. I have been sick for a few days because I have been crying. I don’t know whether it is for forever, or it is temporary.

How shall I take this lady as a second wife?

assalaam alaikum, I am a doctor in India. I have a family going on fine by Allah’s grace. I am in close relation with a lady who is a new Muslim who is living single. I care for her so much that I wish to marry her as my second wife, and protect her and give her […]

I want to marry a good woman, but my father threatens to disown me

Now, the issue stands at my side. Her parents like me and they are waiting for my parents to contact them and secure this matter between me and her. My parents are raising questions about her character- that if a girl was going out with me or she talked to a me, then she cannot be loyal to me; and we cannot accept her. I have tried to convince them, but they are not yielding. They said I will be called as an ‘Aaq’ if I marry her.

Is it possible for Syeds to marry another caste?

Is it possible in Islam to have a marriage of a Syed girl with a boy of another caste?

British woman in love with a Muslim man – why can’t he marry me?

I have never met his friends or family, and yesterday he told me that I wouldn’t be accepted into his community because of my race. I find this extremely difficult to accept. I understand how interracial relationships aren’t celebrated within the Pakistani community, however I can’t help but feel I should be introduced to them.