Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘want to marry’

I want to get married to my boyfriend

I daily pray for our marriage.We want to make this relationship legal by getting married. We both are Muslims (sunni) and well educated, but my mom always makes dua for our breakup and that I never get married to him. He is very good with me, understands me and makes me speak to his parents.

Shy and Afraid

I met a decent, pious Muslim brother who turned out to be my cousin. He is very smart, kind, generous and humble. I got to know him passively because he used to visit my parents and talk to them. Then he graduated and moved away so he no longer comes to visit, and I find myself missing him (Is that wrong?) and wishing that he would come sometimes.

Will accepting this proposal break my father’s trust?

Iam scared to reveal about him to my family. I am feeling as though I have broken the trust of my parents, especially dad who trusts me alot. I don’t know how he will react if he comes to know about this. On the other hand, I don’t want to miss a good character and very religious guy in my life.

The boy’s parents do not agree to our marriage

For the past two years he has started responding back to me with the same love, and he wants to get married to me. He sent his parents to my house, and they came saw me and my family. We both have the same family status. My parents met the boy, and also liked him and his family as well. Now we started waiting for an answer from their side. The boy kept insisting to his parents that he wants to get married here. After 3 months, his mother said that even though she has no issues with me or my family, she wants some girl from her side.

My parents care about society, but I care for him

He is ready to marry me without dowry or any other cultural rituals; I mean only nikah. But my parents want me to get married to a professional by giving dowry, money and other things etc. They say that if I get married to that boy, they will have their heads down in society as he studied only up to tenth. But he is strictly religious, namazi and away from girls.

I want my family to agree on this marriage

I love one guy who has a status gap with my family, so my family does not agree. But the boy is really good, and I would like to marry him as we have known each other very long time. How Could I manage my family for this marriage? What does Islam Say about this situation? I […]

Guilty by association?

So you might be wondering why I’m hesitant if he has all these good qualities. Well, when I stayed with them when I was younger, his father used to molest me. If I have hate, resentment, anger, and lack of forgiveness for anyone in the world it’s for that human being. To me, he’s the definition of evil.

My sister and her husband are trying to prevent my marriage

After a very long time my parents agreed to our marriage, but now my sister and her husband are creating problems for me. They are trying to misguide my father. They said that he is not good looking and he is not presentable, according to my sister and her husband.

Recovering from porn addiction

Everyone talks about marriage being the solution to this addiction. I would like to get married, but I really am worried about whether I am ready to get married. I hate the sins so much, but I am worried since stress can trigger addictions again. Living in Europe there’s still temptation and marriage has a lot of stress and responsibility. I really, really, really do not want to hurt another person with my addiction, or myself all over again. Honestly, it scares me and hurts me to even think about it.

They refuse to let her marry me because I’m diabetic

Her family would say to me “you are like a son to us”, but when they found out about my condition they totally changed. They have made me feel so under-valued just because of my diabetes. I really want to be with this girl and she wants to be with me. She would call me upset that her family will not let it happen, and they will not listen to her that she is happy to marry me. We met the right way, and both families have met, we got along and everything has totally changed.