Tag Archive for ‘Arguments’

I hit my father out of anger
Even if I ask forgiveness he says he cannot forgive me and he swore on the Quran that I am not his daughter anymore. I am praying to Allah because I made a huge mistake. Yes, it was my fault that I hit my own dad- the man who gave me life- but I am just human. I made huge mistakes and I swore I will not do that again.

Everything started going wrong after I got a boyfriend
After that day he began to change drastically. He started to attack things I loved (I am a girly girl and I love makeup and clothes and those things). He began to take those away and said I can’t wear makeup anymore, and I can’t wear what I want. I didn’t dress inappropriately as my parents are pretty religious, but he would attack everything. I was really mad at first, but I dealt with it. As soon as he saw that I could deal with it, he gave me even more rules.

Fast Marriage and Faster Problems
There is nothing with me now… becoz of me, my parents, relatives are ashamed and deeply hurt. Shall I leave her and find new life?

Newly married, but struggling
I believe my husband loves me, but he is not as in love with me as he would like to be. He told me this. This has left him frustrated and scared. He thinks we don’t match. He wants it to work, but can’t seem to understand that requires true work on both sides, not just half hearted attempts. I love him and am still very drawn to him.

I hurt him too much
My behaviour changed him and he was not happy with me. Now he is saying that I have hurt him a lot in many ways which changed his feelings, but he still loves me and needs some time to be normal. He says we should make dua, and if it’s in our destiny we will marry.

My mother-in-law making my life hell!
She expects me to not go to school, not go to my family, not go out with my husband… To wake up, make food for her, clean for her and have babies so that she has something to do with her day!

Conflict with my mother – what should I do?
She wants me to control my husband, I refused and she cursed me.I came back to ask forgiveness but she cursed me to hell. I cried and had a miscarriage that same day.

My husband says I’m annoying, but I just want him to appreciate me.
My husband and I have been fighting a lot lately. He hardly ever spends time with me. He never wants to take me out to dinner or the movies or do anything together as husband and wife. Now when I text him and asks “what are you doing? ” “when are you coming home?” Etc he says I’m annoying and I’m getting on his nerves…

I don’t get along with non-Muslims!
I don’t get along with non-Muslims at all. This is a big problem since I live in a non-Muslim country, and many times I have gotten in trouble with the police.

Aunt is putting black magic on us, I can’t live like this
My mother used to go to Al-Huda (An Islamic Teaching Center) where her teachers and some colleagues found out that our maternal uncle’s wife was going to a person (Ghazi Baba) who used the help of Jinns to harm and to help at times.