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Should I marry for love or follow my parent’s wishes?

I am a muslim boy who wants to marry a Hindu girl. The time when we thought of being with each other for life and get married. I told her that it is going to be difficult for me to marry you because there are few expectations that my parents and family would have from you and I am not too sure if you will be able to fulfil them.

Do saints really posses people’s body and tell them solution to their problems?

I am totally confuse now; my question is; does saints really posses any person’s body and say things as such if it’s true. Why these saints don’t know the sexual abuse I underwent from my grand dad and the trauma and fear I am having in my mind now. Why these saints can’t show my mom the depression and fear I am undergoing.

What shall I do to gain my husband´s trust?

My huband doesn´t trust me what ever I do or say he always thinks that I am a lier…….which I am not.

Got engaged to a 14 year old girl, but she’s not pretty

I was told by my family to chose girl and get married soon as i am 29 almost. One of my relative referred a girl whose age is just 14.5 years. I got opportunity to see her for just 3-4 seconds. i liked her and decided to get engaged. My engagement was done just after few days.

Confused Istikhara

I met this wonderful man, he is pious. From the day he met me he has been performing the Istikhara. We got closer until we fell inlove. After almost the 5th Week of performaing Istikhara daily he asked for my hand and I accepted. Two months after that suddenly in one day, on the day he traveled to another country he changed 360 degrees and asked to stop the relationship.

I conceived without sexual intercourse, now I’m guilty of hurting two men. Which should I marry?

I am 25 years old Muslim Girl, From childhood I say namaz and recite quran, I still do. I am not into bad things at all, except 4 years ago I got involved with a Guy. I had physical relations with him for one year, and then but we never had sexual intercourse, but somehow I got pregnant but then end up with an abortion. After my abortion we had proper sexual relation once.