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My fiance is uncertain if he wants to marry me.

We had intimate moments, and he is the first man. I always want to be with him and according to him, we are already married because we had the intention when we got engaged. I do not know what to do. My husband and dad do not get along and it feels like he does not want marriage anymore.

Proposal from an Arab man.

He said that he has some feelings for me and it grows everyday. He even says that he loves me and couldn’t imagine how would it be to be without me. He also meets me almost everyday. Even if he’s busy with his work, he will drop by to see me. Wu-allahi we never had sex because we are both muslim and we know its haram.

After 6 years in a relationship she won’t marry me

She’s stated that things are really messed for her in her head and surroundings and she needs to figure things out, that she wants to be alone, she wants me to carry on with life, she feels like I come in the way of her decisions and that she can’t risk it anymore because its changing her as a person.

Will my boyfriend marry me or is he playing around?

He is 4 years older than me. I have tried to confront him a lot of times about why he does not properly express his love…

I lost the real me

I really hate myself for pushing people away that love me and then trying to bring in the people who don’t. I can’t handle all these pains in one go: mum’s health, family arguments, my broken heart and loneliness. I cry everyday while I pray during namaz; I can’t concentrate and I soon breakdown.

What things should I forgive my husband for? Where should I draw the line?

In a marriage, where should you draw the line of things your willing to forgive your husband for? I’ve been confused about this for sometime, and have been wondering what your intake might be.

I have done Istikharah but he doesn’t seem to want me

So i’ve done all these istikhara but he doesn’t seem to want me and my intention is both of us strengthen our faith together and i would love him for the sake of Allah not for my desired which may seem the case and also help his family to please Allah

Lost my religion: Islam

It’s killing me 🙁 A number of times I tried to get back to Islam but FAILED!!! The very idea of God becomes unacceptable to me, but a few months back I do remember while I was on a flight and our plane had some severe jolts because of weather and I thought we would crash and all I could utter was the Kalimah, and I uttered it many a times.

How to cancel my wedding?

I was in ‘love’ with someone, and I had told my parents about my desire of wanting to marry him. I was quite serious about him. However, I have become a bit more mature and islamically more knowledgeable I guess over the past few months. Hence, now I want to marry someone who is islamic. I am not so practising right now, but I want to be practising and it would be really nice if I can have a hubby who will try to help me in this.

I am very confused, I am feeling pressured to marry my friend but am in love with another.?

I have known this man for 4 years, we are family friends. We have been good friends, and we’ve recently been talking and I know for a fact, that this man does have feelings towards me. I know that he’s told his parents about me, and one day he hopes we get married.