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Muslim woman, unmarried and pregnant

We have found out we are expecting a child. He has always wanted to convert to Islam, we were just waiting to graduate from college. We would really like to get married before the baby is born.

How to move on from what we left behind?

The things we experienced there…I can’t even talk about them. Every time I remember, it makes me cry. We are living with my parents which don’t understand the reason I am Muslim. However they let us stay with them. My husband’s family is still in Syria. I can’t bring them here, and I can’t help them in anyway. We don’t even have a job yet.

I want to marry a Korean, but everyone is against it

I met this Korean guy and he seemed like a good person. We were talking one day and he said he wanted to convert to Islam. I was shocked but he seemed sincere. I finally thought, I think he’s the one for me.

We married secretly and my husband had an affair with another woman

As we are husband and wife now, Ahamdullilah, we do feel strongly for each other, our intimate life is next to zero. thats because we dont have a place to be alone at and hence get easily frustrated at small things. Only after 3 months of marriage, he had an affair with another girl and wanted to divorce me. but by the grace of Allah, he is back to me again and realizes his mistake and is embarassed.

I’m sunni girl, and I want to marry a bhora boy.

I want to know what I have to do to convert and does my family have to get involved in my conversion???

Am I responsible for the one I helped lead to Islam?

I had helped a friend of mine to convert to Islam. However, I didn’t give enough time for her as I was busy with myself and I also had problems at that period of time. Now, I seriously want to help her learning more about Islam In Shaa Allah with little knowledge I have. I was not there for her for 3 months, so was I sinning to do so?

Reverting to Islam, can I go against my father’s wishes?

I feel like I need Islam in my life, to formally be a part of the religion of submission to Allah’s will. But then is it ok to go against my father in order to do so? Would that be against Allah’s will if I disobeyed my father and caused him humiliation?

Why is it necessary to accept islam??

He asked why is it necessary to accept Islam, but does not find the answer convincing. Now he wants me to help him find a convincing answer to “why is it necessary to revert?” I don’t know what to tell him.

How do I learn more about Islam?

Only recently I’ve been learning about Islam, however I don’t think I’m doing it right. I keep jumping from one thing to another. I’m not sure which steps to take to learn more.

I want to marry someone. Should I tell my parents or keep quiet for now?

But what if I have the person I want to get married to in mind now? Alhamdulillah, I think I have met the brother with whose religion and characters I’m satisfied with. We have never done anything haraam. We have never been alone in a closed environment. He is very pious and acts and dresses modestly.