Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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I’m fearful of my husband having Hoor-Al-Ayn in Paradise

I do not want my husband to have Hoor al Ayn in heaven under any circumstances. Why can’t I just marry a Non-Muslim man? I mean, the Muslim husband will go away from me to his Hoors!

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He’s blocked me even though my Istikhara was positive.

I tried commiting suicide once because I could not get over him. I left my career for him. I fought with everyone around for him. He promised me to marry in the past.

My boyfriend is marrying someone else

When my parents started getting marriage proposals, he asked me to ignore and wait for him. Now his family introduced a girl to him and he wants to marry that girl!

Will my future wife also have engaged in sexting?

I never wanted to do this and as Allah says in Quran “Pure women for pure men”. I don’t want my wife’s past to be like mine.

**I stopped practicing Islam and I plan suicide if things don’t improve**

I am from an abusive home….I give myself two weeks to gather courage to move out and get myself together, and if I can’t gather the courage, then I’m going to remove myself and cease to exist

My husband is hardly a husband…I feel so neglected

He tells me to just accept it and that that’s his personality…currently he spends every weekend sleeping at his parents as he says he needs that time for himself.

Moving out from an abusive home – I need advice

I’m being emotionally abused at home and am wondering if it would be a sin to move out. I’ve considered suicide.

I feel anxiety, something is wrong with me

I don’t know what’s the problem, but when I’m near to ALLAH I feel good, but I feel something is wrong in myself. I get alot of migraines. I cry alot. I’m a Muslim girl living far away from my parents in another country, for international studies. I feel something is not normal in me. I feel a lot of heaviness in my body.

I don’t want to hate my mother, but I do

I think I hate my mother, but I don’t want to. She’s my mother, after all. I also think I’m depressed. I have to give a thesis this semester but I can’t concentrate on my work. I can’t sleep at night, I keep blaming and feeling crap about myself.

My confession and call for help

I feel horrible. Disgusting. I want to go back to God, I feel so bad. I cry at night, I can’t sleep, I can’t live with myself. I don’t know how fix this. I want to go back to God, but because my faith in my Deen has been lacking, I keep getting influenced into bad things. I always let my drive for physical love get to me.