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I am a revert facing hatred from my parents; I also discovered recently that I was raped by my father in my childhood

I am a recent convert to Islam, but I always believed in waiting for marriage before having ‘sex’, and I was hurt to find out that this happened when I was younger, because I felt like I was living a lie. My mother doesn’t know that I have found out what happened, because I read it in a case file for a lawsuit against my biological father.

Want to get out of my depressed condition

i feel like a worthless creature. on the top if that my family alwz thinks me to be a very nice gal when they will get to knew this my brothers wnt evn trust me.i have broken thr trust . i want to take that person out of my head and also out of my life. want to lead a pious life as before.

My brother’s wife has made my life miserable

I thought that I will find a sister in my brother’s wife because I do not have a sister, but this lady made a hell in my life, and turned my brother against me.

I feel my death coming, it is frightening

I anticipate my death coming. It truly is a frightening experiance and i get this every day. I been told by the doctor that i have anxiety.

I was raped as a child, so am not a virgin. Which Muslim man will ever want to marry me?

I am a muslim girl. Today I am 25. I have lost my virginity when I was a kid because I got raped but nobody knows that. I got a boyfriend who used me and no body will believe if I tell them how that man used me because I was stupid. I believed him, I know everything is my fault.

Can I fast for my boyfriend’s health? Will it be accepted?

I am worried about my boyfriend as I feel I am the reason for his bad health. Can I fast for his health? It is permissible?

Everyone hates me, and I’ve lost faith in Allah

I will always suffer in this life, so why bother reaching out to Allah? Why bother even trying to be a moral person? Staying and helping my parents has gotten me nowhere.

Very stressed and suicidal over what is the right thing to do .

I’m a 22 year old boy. I recently got into a relationship with this girl that i really liked. Around 6 months ago. I wanted to marry her and even informed my sister about her and everything. My family knows the girl since the two families are quite close. In the beginning it was just normal conversation regarding how we would get married. But then later we got really close and attached emotionally.

I let a man use me and ditch me, and now I am full of regret.

I told him he has used me and then ditched me,and now he was satisfied. He said yes, he used me and now he is satisfied. That made me feel even worse. Since then, I have lost my self-esteem and feel very sad, I’m so depressed and feel used and dirty.

Should I divorce or not? My husband is overseas and all we do is argue!

I am in the U.S with my family, and my husband is overseas and I have been here for a month and he doesnt speak to me anymore and vice versa..but we are still married. I told him that I didn’t want to be with him anymore and that is what he wanted in the first place, but he is being stubborn about divorcing me.