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Tension in the house makes me feel like giving up

Because of the situation at home, I really couldn’t care less about my future. I basically have given up on life. I’m an only child, and for the past decade I have seen my parents bicker, fight, and insult each other.

Got engaged to a 14 year old girl, but she’s not pretty

I was told by my family to chose girl and get married soon as i am 29 almost. One of my relative referred a girl whose age is just 14.5 years. I got opportunity to see her for just 3-4 seconds. i liked her and decided to get engaged. My engagement was done just after few days.

My brother’s marriage was never consummated and is now falling apart

I hope you all are doing well iA. I am writing this question because I would very much appreciate if someone can help my family during a very difficult situation for us. I will provide you all with a summary of all that has happened up to this point. I am the sister of the groom. I apologize that the summary is long but I feel like I have to tell the entire story in order to get the best possible advice.

I can’t let go of my past mistakes

I feel like I’m being punished by Allah because of all my sins. I’m almost 30yrs old, not married and have no life. When I was 7yrs old I was sexually abused several times by a family friend. I’ve never told anyone about this.

I took my girlfriend’s virginity, now she’s getting married to another guy.

Please excuse my grammar and misspelling english is not my first language. I come from a Christian family, but I was never very religious at all, like the average western teen all I care about was girls, parties living a reckless life. About 4 years ago I met a tajik girl at work, at first we where coworkers, then friends and it turned into a relationship with out the approval of her father and mother.

I have lost hope & will consider suicide if things don’t improve

We live in an extended family with his mother. Two brothers and their families. My husband is the youngest and it is my mother in law’s desire that her sons remain together although we are cooped up like chickens. At the time i went into shock as a newly wedded bride i hadnt expected to hear that i had been made a pawn in family politics and that i was to remain childless.

Can’t seem to shake this feeling of loneliness

I am a 25 year old guy, who recently, started feeling lonely. I have been feeling this way for several months now. It is an overwhelming sense of urgency that I need companionship from someone of the opposite sex.

My husband lied about everything, he was already married

After my failed marriage, i met someone who was born here in uk. i never knew that he is pakistani aswell. He lied everything bout himself. I told him everything about me and never lied to him and he told me that he is divorced as well and have one son and the ex wife is in pakistan. He even told me that he is just adopted by a pakistani family. I believe him coz he dont look like a pakistani and have a very fair skin.

Divorced while pregnant and now a single Mum in depression

I had fight with my husband, and told him that I loved him so much but I take divorce so easy. I said I want divorce. At that time I didn’t know that was pregnant so we were apart for 6 months , and then he formally divorced me while I was pregnant and married another girl.

Depression since my girl left me

I have been together with a girl for six years. Last autumn she left me. Reason: she doesn’t love me anymore. Shortly before she left, we planned to marry. Since that day I have a terrible depression. I can’t stop the negative thinking. I think of her every day and night. I blame myself for not having done everything for her.