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What should I do?

I’m seeking suggestion about family harassment… I have faced lot of insult.

Confused about my goal of life

I think being a scientist, you can work to develop solutions to the problems facing humanity and discover the realms of knowledge. Will my work please Allah and His Prophet ?

Where to Study More About Islam?

I want to study in Arabic speaking country. I don’t know about good Islamic schools, I would appreciate your suggestions.

promise made in kaabah

I feel like I made a mistake by making that promise, and now there is no way around it. I just need to ask you guys if there is no way I can go back on that promise? I know I will earn Allah’s wrath if I ever break that promise.

Mom is telling me to leave him alone, but I can’t

Now unfortunately it has been revealed to my mother before that time, and she is very angry and not ready to listen to me anymore. I am requesting that she just meet him once. I really love him, I can’t leave him, but her only demand is to leave him.

I need to marry because of fitna, but my parents won’t understand.

Why am I having this test? I cannot control myself anymore. I stop watching porno for a week, then in a day I watch more than 10 times until I feel so tired and dirty. I don’t know what to do. I pray, but it seems Allah does not accept my prayers. I always ask Him to make me forget about the porno, but nothing happens. From the other side, something inside my head tells me: Watching porno is better than you losing your virginity.

How to get rid of financial problems and improve my parents’ life

I am really worried about my parents and my siblings. How could I be happy after marriage by seeing the struggle of my parents to clear the loan? Moreover, my siblings need to be educated, and there are many more responsibilities of my parents like getting a good education for my siblings, my younger sister’s marriage, and construction of a new house, as the current house is not sufficient for a big family like mine.

Seeking Guidance about Istikhara

(Editor’s note: both of your posts have been combined into one for the sake of convenience.) My situation: I am planning to go for my higher studies, and I intend to do Istikhara for seeking guidance from ALLAH, as there are a number of pros and cons related with that (like leaving family, job, etc.). I […]

How can he deal with stubborn and oppressive parents?

My parents often refuse to talk to me for days, make angry faces, criticize, insult and embarrass me a lot in front of relatives and friends. I am given lectures usually about money, status, job opportunities and great worldly prospects. All this even though I am a person who is usually content with little and I have no big ambitions.

dua for admission to med school

I remember I used to be proud of myself that I was good at school, but I know the truth and I see no future in myself anymore. Those who did not like school have gone further than me, but I never gave up hope. I cried myself to sleep every night and sometimes now also, but I know that Allah hears.