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Considering suicide… Is it the only way out of this mess?

Suicide is the only solution for me. I know it’s haram… but I can’t find any other solution.

Stress is eating me alive!

So stress is eating me alive now, and I don’t know what to do or where to start. I can’t continue living like this because my salary can’t even provide me good food, and I am always afraid of commitment…but I’m all alone and need support from a partner.

Marriage or studies, which comes first? I fear for my deen but don’t want to displease parents.

Shall I just take a gap year and work for myself to get married asap even though it would displease/anger my parents and have them thinking I dropped out from university?

Can this friendship become a marriage?

I never wanted to be in a relationship because I always wanted to be my dad’s princess and leave the matter to him. But after 1 week he said “I’m going to marry you. I don’t know, will we be lovers or not? We know that we know each other well- we are best friends. I don’t want to lose you. What if we cannot maintain this after marriage? We will be amazing together.”

Questions about going on Umrah and violence between parents

My father and mother had a big fight. My father has hit my mother hard without any reason. Now my parents want to separate. Who should I stay with?

I can’t make a decision about my studies

I am a girl who finished school. I made several ishthikhara to choose a course at college. I believe that ishthikhara is about Allah’s guidance more than considering signs and dreams. Finally I chose a course for which I felt good and I joined.

My parents are not doing anything to get me married!

I am 21, and just finishing off my degree, and I am starting to think about the next steps in my life… I have told my mother that i would like to get married after I have graduated but she just says we will think about that when you’ve finished, I think that they have placed too much importance on education. I don’t know what to do. How should I approach this situation?

I do not want to marry until I finish my education

I do not want to get married until I finish college (because I do not wish to deny my husband his rights since I study abroad), but on the other hand I do not know whether I am committing a sin or not. Am I disobeying Allah by telling everyone that comes my way to please withdraw his request until I finish college?

My father is not a religious man and I am afraid for my education

I am living with my father. My parents are separated, so i’m living only with my father since i was 9. now i’m still schooling.Since my childhood time i’ve seen my mother get beaten by my father…

I am a muslim, 26year old girl & I want to get married

I am a 26 year old muslim girl and now I really feel that I want to get married. Actually I want to have sex, my sexual feelings are getting very strong and I dont want to make any sin. But my parents think I should study and do PhD before I get married.