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Emotionally abusive mom

She will never be able to get over this overweight issue, and she will never understand that this life is very short before our bodies are destroyed in the grave. She will always be critical of culinary skills, although our Prophet (S) said that a few bites are more than enough to stand straight.

Help!! I don’t know what to do

I can’t end it with him because he threatens to kill himself.. What do I do?

How can I end this engagement?

I tried leaving him 3 times but he would emotionally blackmail me – he even tried to commit Suicide.

He said “Divorce” after taking a second wife

He told me that I forced him to divorce me but its not his heart’s intention… But he said since it was said it literally means divorce… He told me that if I accept his terms, he can take me back.

My parents are forcing me to stay in a forced marriage

My parents emotionally forced me to marry my cousin. My nikkah was done on skype. Now my parents are emotionally forcing me to suck it up & continue otherwise my own parents will divorce each other.

He’s had a physical relation with my mother!

He has a physical relation with my mother from last 5 years… My family insist me to marry with him. And I don’t want to.

Muslim boyfriend says he will kill himself if I don’t have an abortion

I am not Muslim but my boyfriend is. I’m pregnant and he says i have to have an abortion or he will kill himself because he doesn’t want to be a dad.

I was forced into marriage, I wasn’t even aware of it

My parents did the Nikah without telling me. I wasn’t aware that I am getting my Nikah done. And every time I tell my parents that I am not marrying him, they always say but you already did the Nikah.

Parents refusing him my hand on cultural grounds; What can I do to convince them?

So basically, their reasons are his culture, and how my little sisters going to get married.. I don’t know how that relates-apparently when it comes to their time, people will reject my sisters based on the fact that I have got married to someone outside??? Surely IF this is the case, then this is good riddance as this shows how narrow minded these people are anyway?

I want to marry a Korean, but everyone is against it

I met this Korean guy and he seemed like a good person. We were talking one day and he said he wanted to convert to Islam. I was shocked but he seemed sincere. I finally thought, I think he’s the one for me.