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I feel my husband is weak and does not tawakal al Allah

I tell him he too will be successful inshallah and should be thankful for Allah that he has a good wife who is taking care of him (I doubt many woman will accept this responsibility) and a healthy baby. He says alhamdulah and acknowledges that what am saying is right but I can feel it in his face and his attitude that his iman is weak. Astagfirallah its like he does not trust Allah or accept what happens.

Can I get married without the knowledge of my father?

I am a 24 yr old woman. I have chosen a man for marriage and he has chosen me too. He is currently jobless but has little income with which he can support me and the family, if we get married. I am absolutely satisfied with his income and would love to be married to him right away.

How do I settle my differences with my husband as a wife in the light of Quran and Hadith?

I have discussed all these issues with my husband, he promises to change though he won’t admit his infidelity. I have whilst miserably consented to his sexual desires even if he hasn’t showered but when I complained once, he said how come I have had sex before when he didn’t bath.

Does he intend to Marry me?

Should I wait? If he loves me, he should at least inquire about my health right? Would he just stop calling and visiting because he wants to get himself stable first? What does the Quran say about this? He has promised marriage to me does that mean anything?

My family is suffering due to my husband’s addiction. Can I turn to Islamic Exorcism for a cure?

It’s not possible for me to leave him or divorce him coz I have a baby. I don’t have enough support to live alone. My parents can’t give me the financial support. There is no one who can help me to bear my nd mine baby’s expense. If i divorce him where i will live?

How to deal with my abusive husband?

I got job; he asked me to contribute to house hold stuff and eventually in the end I started earning for myself and my house bills etc. He used to beat me often and abuse me; I still tolerated because of recession he didn’t earn a lot and in fact, never showed me how much he earned.

Loving a man beyond borders.

How can I be really sure that he really loves me despite our cultural and religious differences, and our distance? However, I really appreciate his efforts of finding time to talk to me though it may take away his time to sleep or will make him late for work. I really love this man and this feeling, I admit, makes me bias in my decisions so I seek advice from you.

Should I refuse physical relationship if I know my hubby is cheating?

During the separation he had told everyone that he does not like the assertive tone in my voice when I speak to him or my stance regarding career, which I feel he should have thought about before marriage. Please advise , in the light of Isalm, am I still to satisfy him physucally because I cannot confront him right away.

Should I support my husband financially?

I´m a woman of 30 years, married for 3 years. I have a son but my life is at a stake, my husband doesn´t earn anything and expect me to support him. After our marriage, he got married again and now going for a third marriage and working on a phenomena of take it or leave it,..

My father does not work

My father is not doing anything from last 5 years and I dont have elder brother. After my completion of graduation, I started doing job but the salary which I earn is not sufficient. I want my father to do the job.