Tag Archive for ‘financial problems’

Am I the biggest sinner to get this illness?
My family thinks that I got this illness because I must have commit some sins, They look down on me and do not want to know me. I got the job and I try my best to make it to work because of house mortgage n bills.

Why is my mother like this?
Every time she does this I cannot understand her at all. How she thinks that is. She feels that us, her children, owe her a lifetime of debt. Why? Because she gave birth to us, fed us, clothe us and give a roof over our heads.

My husband is having difficulty finding job; is it due to black magic?
He gets gud offers bt nthing wrks out.On consultation wi d sum scholars ,dey said that my hsbnd has bandiSH on him.now at present i joined my old job n he z luking job n he z n Delhi.I stay wid my parents,lyf is too stressed.As my parents giv dffrnt vibes.

I am ready for my marriage, but the culture makes me fear my future
My father had no money to spend on my marriage and the dowry culture is very prevalent here. my parents gave me a good education and am working and drawing a nominal amount of income.

A daughter, a wife and demands of life, sigh!
I am very sorry , extremely apologetic for writing out such a long post which is probably a pain for most people to read, but I desperately need someone to point out where I am going wrong, any personality flaws in me, and how I should tackle with these issues.

Want brother-in-law to move out so rest of us don’t suffer but husband doesn’t understand
Please give some advice, we were a happy family before all this happened now I am just reduced to tears, my husband shouts at me when there is not enough food, when I don’t take child to bed because I can’t because his brother is always hovering around all the time!

Careless father, what should we do?
He doesn’t care about what happens in the household. My mother struggles to pay the rent, electricity, food and everything else we need. My mother currently doesn’t have a job and gets unemployment benefits. My father makes more money than my mother but he does not support us. When we need something (like clothes, not expensive stuff) that our mother can’t afford, we have to ask him several times before he gives us money.

Fiancee and financial issues.
My fiancée is Masha Allah a practicing Muslim, during the time we got engaged he lost his job. He found a new job however, the pay it makes is not enough to support a wife. I found out that he supports his Mom with money. His Mother works but, is not good at managing her money.

I fear for my sister but feel like there is nothing I can do for her as she doesn’t listen to anyone.
I did ask another imam on this with a bit more detail and his advise was the same but this still does not get me out of my frustration I really fear for her and fell like there is nothing I can do for her. Anyone that has any advise please it would be much appreciated I can’t go into too much detail as I don’t want anyone been able to find who I am talking about.

I am not able to find job due to the economic conditions
Although running the house is a job in itself and my wife assures me she is proud of me, i get these thoughts that i am doing something wrong n im looked at being not manly etc. i hav a degree frm pak but in this economic environment i will never get a job which will pay our mortgage.