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Divorcing second wife on paper but not verbally so that I can still be her husband; is such arrangement possible in Islam?
Given the above challenges I am gradually getting less attracted towards 2nd wife and now also feel less obligated for her and as time passes I was thinking of looking at options to formally divorcing her on paper but not divorce her verbally so that religiously I can still continue to be her husband whereas on papers I have divorced , is such arrangement possible in Islam? As don’t want her and her family to have claim on my wealth after I leave this world and want to protect my family of 1st wife and then even drop the idea of having child with 2nd wife as don’t want the child to suffer in such unhealthy future relationship.

My husband doesn’t love me; spends more time with friends but if I leave he cries and begs me to stay.
A couple of days ago, I got fed up; I moved to a separate bed but in the same room and he got really angry that I moved back. He no longer cuddles me or even just a peck on the cheek. My husband was born Muslim but never reads Namaaz. I am not saying I pray 5 tmes daily (make dua for me) but I try to pray daily.

Any dua or advice to buy my own house; it’s really stressing me out
I’m living with my parents, I’m really damn stressed my kids have grown up in my parents house. My daughter is 3 years old now and goes to nursery. I feel suffocated, when ever I try to help, I make it worse. I just need a dua or some sort of advice about how I could get a house and get rid of bad luck.

Christian American man marrying a Tunisian Muslim woman; is it possible?
I’d like to marry her in the future, and I’m willing to respect her as a man until we get married. She’s dying to be with me, and she knows their are many obstacles because of her family.

Is it sinful to beg for help in my situation?
Is it sinful to beg for help in my situation? I don’t want continue to be a loser,and cut off ties with my original country, I would rather die. The Qadar is that I married a poor man and so I don’t have opportunities to succeed.

My father gambles all the money away and tortures us all; I worry about my mother and siblings
My father is a hire car driver and a former accountant and chooses to gamble his earnings away. He gives us little to no money from his income and to pay for household expenses he forces my mother to hand him over the money which the government gives us as benefits and we receive in my mother’s bank account.

Stuck in my marriage, want a divorce from my emotional abusive husband
His negativity towards everything is really affecting me. All I wish is Allah punish him by giving him a disease or some accidents. This is so evil of me inside. I want to be a better person.

My husband talks to other women online.
I have friends here in Turkey and want to stay here but it’s difficult to stay in this marriage. He also does not pray and so I have been told he’s not a Muslim if he does not pray. I am trying to live a good Muslim life but it is hard with my husband.

Secret marriage; I am facing a lot of restrictions.
I have 3 children and recently married a married man as a second wife. His condition of this marriage is that it remains a secret. My family knows about this though and he has met with my family but not my children.

My husband does not completely support me financially
I have been working from day 1 from my marriage. This has always been an issue from the start. Now are relations are strained. We live in the same house but don’t care about each other. We are there for our son.